To let a guy know during rishta talks, and pending marriage, that you’ve got the hawts for him? Or is that a super besharam thing to do?
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hahaha I can't wait for the responses to this thread.
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Very besharam thing to do holds ear tauba tauba.
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Well in not those particular words, buy generally I think guys aren't dense aand they can probably tell if ur into them (unless ur super at sending mixed signals). In fact guys r so good at thinking there's a chance with someone even when there isn't that its probably safe to say if ur making time to communicate with him and vice versa, that both of u r interested in each other (the amount of time is directly proportional to the level of hawts :) in desi relationships atleast).
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Why can't a girl just tell her honay wala that she thinks he is hawt? Why is that so difficult for you people?
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To let a guy know during rishta talks, and pending marriage, that you've got the hawts for him? Or is that a super besharam thing to do?
How far along are the rishta talks? Is it a more yes or a more no from both parties? How did the two potentials meet? Is it an arranged scenario? If yes, the general rule would be to refrain from saying something so direct. You can express interest of course but perhaps don't be quite so frank. If it is someone of your choice (love marriage scenario), go for it- I'm sure he would appreciate the insightful comments :D
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Very besharam thing to do holds ear tauba tauba.
The ear is a very sensual place...are you mocking me?
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Oh also..let the guy express his interest first.
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Hey pcg When it's a done deal then u can go ahead and drop it like its hawt but for now just hold ur tongue.
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To let a guy know during rishta talks, ...
Why can't a girl just tell her honay wala ...
Rishta talks and Honay wala main zameen asmaan ka farq hai. You can tell your honay wala, but potential honay wala should be spared with the unnecessary drooling.
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To let a guy know during rishta talks, and pending marriage, that you've got the hawts for him? Or is that a super besharam thing to do?
Oh hell yeah.. YOU are One HECK of a hottie PCG!!!
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I would only say it if he said it to me first haha
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Some guys like the chase and some love to be chased.it might just flatter him but take it easy with the compliments… One can never go wrong with app bare.. Duppata daanton main daabaying .. WOH hain… Runs away :khatti:
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All the guys for rishta I have spoken to told me that I am beautiful. I didn't take it against them because I wanted the guy to be attracted to me :) ... I paid attention to the ones more who said I look better in reality than my pics... These little things are very minor. You should concentrate on compatibility... Make him chase you, if you don't like him then run for your life.
It seems like you tell them about your expectations at the 1st meeting. Don't scare the guy away.
Look for four things: Character, Education, Personality, Success
Don't come across bitter and rude... If you like the guy, talk to him and get to know him better before showing him your 1000 page list... Men are very scared of demanding women. You can certainly demand but do it at the end once you guys figure out how awesome your chemistry is after you analyze those 4 qualities in him.
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It seems like you tell them about your expectations at the 1st meeting. Don't scare the guy away.
Look for four things: Character, Education, Personality, Success
Don't come across bitter and rude... If you like the guy, talk to him and get to know him better before showing him your 1000 page list... Men are very scared of demanding women. You can certainly demand but do it at the end once you guys figure out how awesome your chemistry is after you analyze those 4 qualities in him.
^This! Wow under all that look-at-me u can find pearls of wisdom.
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It depends on you and him.
If he is the type to become cocky, do not compliment.
If he's not the type who needs compliments, then give them out.
I don't hold back though...if I feel something I say it because I can. If I have the hots for him...I'll tell him he's cute. What he does with that is his choice. If he chooses to get cocky, he might lose me. If he chooses to be humble, he'll keep me.
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I am sure if you Ask your mom or any aunt the same question and you will get appropriate answer . i.e. becoming too frank in advance is not recommended.
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It could go either way. I did it and he liked it.
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as long as you dont say 'i have got the hawts for u" while drooling. I guess we are good.
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so just me who finds every rishta guy very irritating and average?
i think it's my hate for arranged marriage. :/