Is it a guy thing?

[Sara516]

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@KashmiriRainDrops

LOL! When i’m in that situation, sorry but i never get offended…i mean if we are all friends then who cares…i don’t think it’s rude at all…cos if i’m with one of my girl friends and she sees a guy she likes and makes a comment like, “oh he’s cute!” then i wudn’t mind…so if i’m with one of my guy friends and he sees a girl he likes and makes a comment like, “oh she hot!” then i wudn’t mind either, cos we’re just friends rite…y wud it be different if it is one of ur guy or girl friends? And in fact, if u show that u r offended, he may even get the wrong idea and think ur jealous and that u fancy him! When i’m with my fiance and his friends or any of my guy friends, they (the single ones) are always checking out other girls, haha! sometimes they even ask me wot i think of her and if i wud go try to put in a good word for them…it’s all in good fun, and i think that’s y i get along better with guys (as well as girls though) cos they don’t have to worry about if they’re offending me as a girl all the time…and my fiance tells me his friends enjoy being around me cos i’m not uptight like most asian girls…sorry if this offends u, but that’s just me… i’m not trying to imply anything…just sharing my view…

P.S: and no i don’t think it’s just a guy thing…when a bunch of my girlfriends are sitting around and say one of our guy friends is there…we still point out if we think guys are hot too!

It’s okay, I know i’m uptight and kanjoos and all that good stuff But seriously, is a lil bit of shareefness toomuch to ask for

[Sara516]

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And hiccup, no its not about me liking him or whatever, I think i mentioned that in my first post. I just find it shows lack of class or etiquette..

[hiccup]

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@Sara516

And hiccup, no its not about me liking him or whatever, I think i mentioned that in my first post. I just find it shows lack of class or etiquette..

I fnd this comment very chocolate-cake-esque. Unless its your brother or your father or your lover, it should be all good.

Remember, a guy friend sees you as a neutral, as “one of the lads”.

[Sara516]

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chocolate cake... :(

[PaRtyGuyz]

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hahahaha interesting thread!!!

[_Tikhi_Jalebi]

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You know wats worse?
A guy holding a girls hand and staring at other women

[Muzna]

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There is some truth in saying that the guys just may not be refined enough for your company.

I tend to believe that people will respond to you the way you teach them to. So if you are chummy with the guys then they will consider you one-of-the-guys ( and don't get all offended like PCG did, it's just a phrase) and crack the same kinds of jokes and comments that they do when they are with only the men.

Perhaps this relates back a bit to the feminazis destroying chivalry thread going on in General.

[Mehnaz]

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I see it as a sign of a guy being comfortable and thinking of you as just a friend, so being relaxed enough to treat you like one of the boys. If it bothered you, you should have asked him to behave.

[PyariCgudia]

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^ True.

Sometimes guys are just thick, and I guess guys these days are getting more comfy around women and showing their true colors. You can always tell him to calm himself down and that it makes you uncomfy. Or well, you can always watch and find out the dirt on a guy :D

[KashmiriRainDrops]

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@Sara516

It’s okay, I know i’m uptight and kanjoos and all that good stuff But seriously, is a lil bit of shareefness toomuch to ask for

Hehe! No, i guess not, depends…every1 is differrent…just be glad he’s just a friend that’s wot i think…

[AnGeL_EyEs]

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i dont find it disrespectful when my guy friends check out other girls while they are around/with me. In fact, i tend to check them out with them and give them my approval or not. grins

[Sara516]

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Okay so maybe it's just me being uptight.. thanks guys :)