Re: Is it a good idea to tell ur wife about ur past ?
If u want to b honest n develop trust … then tell ur would b wife or husband about ur past affairs before marriage … I dont see any point in telling all this after marriage as u r not giving him or her any options to accept that or not…ppl r different some may dont like it or get hurt then wat can he or she do …they have to accept it …
If u didnt tell ur wife about past affairs then better not tell her after marriage unless she ask about it and is comfortable knowing about it… because if u had a past its not like cheating on her it was before her …