I've had rishtas ask me to lose weight. But when I have told some of my girlfriends that, they are like how can he ask you that, he should like you for what you are. But here in this post, many girls are saying its okay if he asks you that. So which one is it?
Munni firstly losing weight is something you only do for yourself not because someone wants you to. It will make you feel good about yourself , its healthy and doing it for someone else makes it that much more harder to acheive.
Secondly girls who tell you its ok to be overweight and the guy should like you for yourself are either delusional or not really your bestest buddies. When it comes to rishtas neither do you have the amount of time nor is it possible to get to know a person well enough to overlook physical attributes ......Physical attraction is the first and foremost deciding factor in a relationship and if you don't like what you see would you go after it ? I don't think so !
The girls here are talking about asking your spouse to do something that appeals to them .....which is entirely healthy and what it should be.......your in a relationship with this person and after the novelty has worn off , you need to build on other things to make that relationship stronger but its doing things like dressing up for your partner , or dying your hair , keeping a particular hairstyle etc. that keeps the "spark" alive !***