Is a fair request for a spouse / finacee to ask the other one to change / or alter their physical appereance.
Lets say to
- to lose weight?
- get botox?
- dress a certain way?
- dye your hair a certain color
- to get bangs
To some extent I think it's okay. Why not? But what are some things you would do and the other things are just crossing the line.
i.e I will NOT dye my hair!
if the weightloss request is coz of health issues its ok , if for cosmetic purpose .... its mean
same for the other treatments like botox hair dying etc
a spouse can certainly comment on dress if it aint modest etc , but apart from that id consider it an insult