Is it a cutural thing?

It’s sucha sad thing but I have come across it many many times. Why do people do it?

Uh nope, it happens in every culture. It's an individual thing

Re: Is it a cutural thing?

I dont' think so. For those of us who hang around all/mostly desis, it may seem that way.

Its their inferiority complex that doesnt let them see anyone happy.

It's not just our own Paki people, it's everywhere. It isn't a cultural thing, unfortunately, it's a negative human thing.

Allah gives us all feelings, emotions. We all have something positive and negative in our characters, we should try to do the positive things and fight against the negative things. Some don't care, others don't realise how negative they are and then there are the people who are positive or at least try to do positive things in their lives.

It's not cultural, it's universal.

Because they feel insecure lol it's rooted from control. lol Forget about it.

Because they are jealous of you and think they can't beat you.

I wonder if insecurity is rooted from jealousy then why was the need to ijaad the word control and jealousy. LOL Daamn I don't like tomaatoes are so girgirt.

exactly!

I have seen more desis than anyone putting others down. I think it's not just inferiority complex but also superiority complex that makes them think they are better than others and they think they have a right to say whatever they like. I agree with notorious. that sometimes they dont even know they are doing it but it just makes them feel better.