Is it a big no-no?

Lifestyle Relationships
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to meet a girl ristha prospect for coffee/dinner in pak (esp isb) these days? After not having good luck trying to find a reasonable girl here in US, my relatives in pak are going to help arrange something.

I just want to be able to get to know the girl better and doing it infront of everyone is not a viable option.

Shukran

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Re: Is it a big no-no?

its ok but only after the families have met and liked each other than most people would be ok with having the guy and the girl meet for coffee or whatever.

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After not being able to find someone in the US?

WHAT THE HELL??

Firstly, hello. waves

Secondly, go to any masjid, or muslim youth group or college/university organization meet up and you will find PLENTY of single educated beautiful young women who are waiting for rishtas, and can’t get any because guys like you decide to go have coffee/gol guppas in Pakistan with women who can’t speak English.

:rolleyes:

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women in Pakistan can't speak english?? really??? something new for me

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Somebody call 911
Shawty fire burning on the dance floor
Whoa!!!!!!

Hi Sean Kingston

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EPIC ROFL

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There is nothing wrong in meeting a girl for coffee or dinner in Islamabad. A lot of girls are educated, have good jobs, work in corporate or government offices and don't have any inhibitions about meeting a guy for coffee, especially if they know that the guy is genuine and serious.

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LOL! oh my days

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Are you serious?

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:omg: PCG I think I love you.

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Lol yeah I agree with pcg, some speak English, but it's not just language barrier, it's the thought/personality barrier

*different sense humours
*different upbringing
*different prospective of certain aspects in life - which may clash with your thought patterns

Or you could over-come all this and be perfect together. It varies from person to person. I know in the UK they now are making it harder to make the abroad marriage that much harder - with 5 years gap till benefits that us Uk dwellers have - not sure if this goes for the passport too. One day I reckon they will say no more abroad marriages - that should be interesting - this is just a presumption. But with mass influx of people and limited resources - only matter of time.

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Sorry went off a tangent there. Also to answer ur question dunno nowadays most girls have mobiles there - as for one to one if it's a village/town this simply will be impossible. If it's a city then perhaps yes.

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Also when I mentioned “benefits” not sure what this implies I read the article over the shoulder of someone on the train couple days ago :rofl:

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Please do not demonize someone preferring that different sense of humor, upbringing and perspectives. Innit?

For the OP, most of the families these days don't fuss if you want to see her, specially in Islamabad unless the girl's family is very conservative, in which case you might as well not go ahead. Good luck!

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i would be more concerned about girls who can barely converse a word in urdu :smiley:

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its because of this disrespectful attitude that guys have to go back to pakistan and find ristha

shouldnt be a surprise

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For a free green card, who wont give you respect?

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whoa...Islamabadian girls are more westernised than the ones living in West...Allah bachaye.

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PCG..you crack me up :p

btw green card holder ...are you married? ;)

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its because of this disrespectful attitude that guys have to go back to pakistan and find ristha

shouldnt be a surprise