Is expressing love, immaturity? If a man expresses his love to his wife, if he is being romantic & praising his wife, or even if sometimes his wife is ‘naraz’ aur uska husband usay manaye ya uske nakhre uthaye.. does this all count in immaturity?
Should he be dealing with his wife in a different way in such situations if he is Mature? If a man says, he can’t do such things because it sounds immature to him, is it right?? Is it, love has to do something with maturity?? or its just a lame excuse!
Yikes, it doesn't sound like just a general question. Seems more like someone said something to you regarding your interactions with your spouse.
I think that sincere praise and appreciation of one's partner and being able to apologize reflects emotional intelligence/awareness because such actions are essential in the development/maintenance of relationships in general (marital or otherwise). How expressive you are can also depend upon personality...people show their love in different ways.
I think that loving/supporting your spouse and catering to their "nakhray" to the extent that it blinds you from reason/common sense and hurts you and others (or infringes upon the rights of others) is NOT reflective of emotional maturity. Also, it takes two people to make a relationship. That said....while the husband might be the kind to go out of his way to appease his wife, is it also possible that wifey is being unreasonable with her nakhray/expectations/attitude? Sure. I don't see this as a black and white question. I think this is an odd question.
relation of husband and wife is the most intimate and it has nothing to do with maturity or otherwise. So yea, these are excuses only, coming from those who dont have it :hinna:
