is a guy considered gay if he takes care of himself? i mean if he gets facials? or gets manicures? or applies too much gel? i mean do we have the right to accuse them of being gay? don’t we want our men to be well groomed? or is it way to feminine?
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i think ur talking about men being "metrosexual" ?
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Well, I wouldn't think he was gay, because it really makes me smile when I see a guy taking care of the way he looks:)As long as he doesn't go to the extent.. I know this guy who had a person come over to his house to give him a manicure and pedicure.. The only bad part was if you shook his hand, it would be smooth and 'silky', and he looks really macho! So that was the big thing:p
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Sounds like a metrosexual......
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wow according to ur rules, Im married to a "gay" guy! hahahaha why are you so concerned about the persons sexual orientation, even if they are gay why is that something you need to have defined??
Unless you are sexually interested in the guy I dont think you need to know if he is or not gay based on his habits.
I think its important for guys to take care of themselves.. I personally could never handle a guy who was not into self grooming...
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He could be Bi-Sexual....but I doubt it...seems very metro and in touch with himself. I appreciate it if a man can take care of himself, but not to extreme limits of grooming like girls. I hate it when guys do their eyebrows. I have 2 cousins who are into themselves as such...and i hate it cuz their eyebrows look like they were threaded or sumthing....their poor wives!!!!!!!
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there is nothing wrong with guys taking care of their looks…i believe the only case where a guy can be called a gay is when he likes other guys a little tooo much, and does things with them that he should be doing with women…
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People have already hit the mark with the metrosexual comment. Nowadays guys take care of themselves. It's refreshing.
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thers nothing wrong with a guy taking care of himselffff
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even women wnt’ do that thing that guys will do with each other
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i think manicures and pedicures are a bit far but... watever i think its sweet that their making the effort
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there was a guy in my school who used to appply foundation on his face everyday in front of his locker..it was weird.
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Grooming to me;
Get a decent haircut - when its due
Make sure your beard and moustaches are trimmed (if you keep them)
Nasal and Ear hair should be taken care of - once in a while
Chop your finger and toenails (urself) when they go beyond a certain limit
Use a little bit of hair gel, deodrant at the start of the day.
Make sure you dont have bad breath. I am totally allergic to it and cant stand within 5 yards of anyone whose mouth smells like $hyte.
Clean clothes, wear a decent cologne (no compromise here)
Thats about it.
Anyone going beyond the above is … errrr … not exactly gay 
but those characters are called SISSY … or Whatever 
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lemme also add
- getting rid of hair in ur arm-pit (they totally gross me out and makes u stink a lot more!!)
and for the rest I agree with you!..and i don’t think there is anything wrong with mainucure & pedicures too!..remember they are for relaxation!?
but getting ur eyebrows done…or foundation…that’s definitely one territory guys shudn’t step into! unless they want to look like a lady instead of a man..
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lol no tht is gay from no way
many guys in pakistan get their facial down for wedding to look good for their none wali biwi LOL
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AAAHHHAHAHAHAHAH, way to start a thread.
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people do what they want, and like the gender they wish...should we care?
as long as they are not trying to kill their neighbors...no we should not care
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Well people arent gay...its just guys who take care of themselves are seen as vain which is a feminine trait...doesnt bother me so much...but i do have my limits...
My ex was a beautician so i got facials, manicures and pedicures which was nice...i reckon thats cool...
But she had guys come in that wanted their eyebrows shaped and legs waxed...no for me thats crossing a line...
A man with plucked eyebrows and hairless legs is worrying...
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Care to elaborate a bit Sara!!