Is he back....?????

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So, again I am being treated like a ****** I don’t claim that I am ALL new now or I am ALL changed now but I think now it’s time to stand up for myself and for my daughter. What does he think he is??? I mean first he betrayed me by claiming that he loves me and can’t leave me but on the other hand, he was making grounds with his mother to divorce me and then "suddenly"kicked me out of his home and life. I tried to save my marriage and was running and looking for him everywhere to request not to leave me. Where was he then?? he didn’t face me and didn’t even meet his daughter on special occasions. If he was fair in his decision then he was supposed to face ME as I am the mother of his child, he couldn’t take this extreme step so EASILY or COMFORTABLY at that time.

Now I got a legal notice from family court that he wants to meet his daughter and pay only 3,000 Rs. per month to give her a financial support. and I am like WHAT?? 3,000 Rs. per month?? seriously?? is it a joke or what? is he trying to play with me again? Even if he is not financially established then why did he get married?? why did he let the child come into this world if he wasn’t able to support her? being a BIOLOGICAL father is not ENOUGH. I didn’t snatch her from him. It was HE who kicked me and her out of his home. I was begging to his family to stop him from doing this to me and his daughter but none of them listened to me. what kind of insulting treatment was it?

when my case was in union council, My father asked his family if they want to discuss the child custody or financial support matter but they refused to talk about it. NOW this legal NOTICE doesn’t make any sense to me. I simply hate this 2 Numbri. he is not even facing me. He could have sent a CHEQUE straight to me and asked me to see her but ulti games khailni hi ati hain us insaan ko. He is married now and can start his own family. why is he trying to make life more difficult for me?

Please EVERYONE. do pray for me that I make him feel like a **** just like he did to me. Do pray that I go through this court process successively and without any difficulty- Ameen

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Re: Is he back....?????

Awww Sorry to hear about your past. but its great that your strong now and your taking great care of your daughter. Yea, I agree 3,000rs is nothing, maybe you can tell the court the expenses of your daughter and have them split half n half between you two.
About the visiting, I know what he did was wrong, I know your mad, and its unfair, BUT he is still her father. Some day your daughter might even ask about him. Its still sadly his right to see her. It's just a visit, don't worry, he wont have full custody over her.
Stay strong, Inshallah you'll raise your daughter a strong girl too.

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Aameen

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ameen and don´t be so upset,try to get him out of ur mind and come out of all this as soon as possible,you will have a looot in front in ur life in sha Allah, there are many people in this world who suffer more than you. it is better to get rid of him after one child than after 3 or 4 children,
all the best, God definitely has something v good for you in return of this sorrow.