Re: Is having a man like having a child to take care of or you or you are a whiner ?
It als depends a lot on a womans personality.
My wife cannot tolerate disorder in the house. She has three kids to look after, plus pick & drop of kids. I have provided her with a full time domestic help. When bcoz of one reason or another (like kids exam or sick or DH is not available), if the house is not the way she likes, she'll go all nuts.
^ oh and Every man has a baby somewhere in him.
X2 thats the catch, you don't until you are already married to one and then all you can do is complain.
well at this point in time I dont have plans to marry a man so I dont need to complain.
and whats this assumption of "of all you can do is complain", if living with a man so so hard, walk out. its 2008.
Re: Is having a man like having a child to take care of or you or you are a whiner ?
Are you kidding me? Walk away from a walking-talking-money-making-machine? Women have needs to you know :p
Hareem, that phrase actually goes in favor of your husband helping you with house chores.
It als depends a lot on a womans personality.
My wife cannot tolerate disorder in the house. She has three kids to look after, plus pick & drop of kids. I have provided her with a full time domestic help. When bcoz of one reason or another (like kids exam or sick or DH is not available), if the house is not the way she likes, she'll go all nuts.
You are such a good husband!
Mirch, all these questions/threads??? sari knowledge GS ke through hi gain kerni hei kia?
anyway, to answer your question, i think it all depends on the women's perspective as to how they look at things..they could be doing housework out of love for their families/husband..now it doesnt mean that those who complain dont love their families..some poeple like to complain just for the heck of it.
yes Mirch I happen to be a whiner :D sometimes and I love it hehe (well I dont whine about house work cuz i hardly do any :p)
Re: Is having a man like having a child to take care of or you or you are a whiner ?
I have to agree with X2 & others, really how long does it take to tidy up the home & clean, esp if you have been managing it and do major cleaning on weekends. Also if you routinely put things where they belong, rather than on the floor...etc....it shouldnt be much to do. I don't understand some ladies who stay home all day, watch tv..etc...mall trips...barely do anything, but still complain.
I am with the guys slightly on this one. If the guy is out working 40-50 hours a week, he can only help out so much at home IF the wife is a house-wife. Now if both are working, then chores should be shared and managed.