Is having a man like having a child to take care of or you or you are a whiner ?

My husband helps me a lot in housework and that upsets my inlaws, they argue with him by saying " mian biwi gaari kay do pahiye hain " (you know typical bollywood dialogues) but my husband always present the islamic point of view regarding women and housework.

I know so many Asian women suffer because of Indian culture and Indian movies and bloody starplus dramas influenced inlaws.