Re: Is a woman another womans worst enemy?
Oh and some men are just idiots.
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Why did you even assume the other woman knew about the guy's past life?
Re: Is a woman another womans worst enemy?
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Yes, it is so. And when it happens, its like lightning striking on you again and again...until you realize it did happen, it wasnt just a nightmare.
Both parties are to blame. They may mess up their own lives, or think they found the ultimate love.....but what right did they have to ruin somebody's else's life?
A woman can influence a man beyond limits. Even now, my ex praises his second wife, former mitress to the skies...lol Its so absurd. About the bad-dua part.....when a person is really bebas" then bad-duas are uttered. Its a coping strategy for some..... My in-laws are great people, but the sort who were not able to influence their eldest son in any right direction. He always acted like a teenage, a rebel. Did the opposite of what parents adviced him.
Anyway, "the other woman".....is a weak person giving into her ego and selffishness. I remember how she would look at "us" being new wedded couple, and ask him..."shouldnt I just leave you both in peace...you look so happy...?" And then the period, when she wanted that big talk....becomming second wife.....because she was engaged to another man and her family was pressing her to get married..... My weakling of an ex factor, would always mention she wanted to meet me....I had had it. I tried to invite her over, talk her into sense, but in front of me, she would touch him and hug goodbye....and he just acted ashamed for some lousy minuttes. Yuk, enough about them. Trash belongs with trash.
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Why did you even assume the other woman knew about the guy's past life?
Even if she doesnt..... The day she does, then its takes some soul searching..... Everybody has a right to say "no". :D
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'woh meirey naseeb kee barish, meire he cheth per bares gae. '
quiet likely, but it is only detrimental to the men they are trying to beat each other for, whatever their role might be - mom or wife or sister.
toba. horrible tensions.
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Why did you even assume the other woman knew about the guy's past life?
U'd have to be very stupid not to know something like he has a wife.
And even if she didn't I'm sure she found out when he left his first wife.
Re: Is a woman another womans worst enemy?
Why not look at the man in this story? Blame him. He had a family that he broke for another woman. Is he a slave to his genitals that he can't think and make decisions for himself? That he can't make moral decisions?
Why not blame him.
Never blame another woman. Always blame the guy. They're the ones that God supposedly gave more power and authority to, aren't they? Isn't that what ever maulvi in religion forum barks on about?
Then how can you possibly blame the stupid immoral woman, who can't help but be a stupid temptress?
Why not blame the person with the most responsibility and authority?
Don't we blame Musharaf for every problem in Pakistan? Then why do we avoid blaming the "head of the household"?
You get the title, you get the responsibility, you should also get the blame.
The woman broke the family when she got involved with a married man.
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No, HE broke his own family when he got involved with another woman. The responsibility towards the family is in the hands of the man, not the "other woman". The control over whether the family gets hurt is, in the end, in the hands of the man.
Do you know how many women hit on my father? He hasn't ever cheated, and instead he shows these ladies pictures of his family to show that he's got daughters the age of these girls who hit on him.
You'll NEVER get rid of women who are looking for an opportunity. Most of the time, I would say that these women aren't aware the guy has a family unless they're told.
Why are we assuming that in this case, the other woman even know there was a family when she began pursuing this man?
90 percent of the time, I can guarantee you its the man's masti. Its rarely that the female is hell bent upon breaking up the family. Either she is told there is no family, or that the family is about to break apart anyway. Most women, when told by the man that they're perfectly happy with their family, would not push the situation.
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Generalizing and calling names is the solution? 
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Sarcasm, silly. And no its not the solution. The solution is that muslim men start acting like real muslim men, for a change.
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Yes, that is just SO funny. :)
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i find the distinction of women unnecessary. there would be always be men and women who harm their own gender. as someone above said humans are prone to this behaviour.thread starter is also a woman and finds this wrong so just goes to show all fingers arent the same.
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oh yeah, and the other woman is not at fault.
seeing that a man is married, why would she follow him?
women, just as much as men, must guard themselves.
so even when something is becoming over for a man in his marriage, it must be handled carefully and sensibly by the other woman.
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Yes, that is just SO funny. :)
No, not funny. Its sarcasm.