Is a wife

a strong one, in her principles and beliefs,

a cause for a resentful or even jealous personal scare against her?

why and in what ways?

her charactertistics: she is not down grading, or had double standards, not is she ignorant of her prized priveleges of responsibly taking care of a family in the making.

her opinions and her decisions are or may sond daunting, but when and if her spouse can decode her motives, her sense of fairness, it might help the view both will take.

share your thoughts on this.

Re: Is a wife

Not really sure what u mean, or what u r asking?

Re: Is a wife

the general sentiment regarding an equal partner is acknowledged by good men. but, many a times, because of socialization and own inability to be fair, men who otherwise could become good husbands, remain bad husbands.

this is an observation, that as a culturally male dominated society, some Muslims and Pakistanis like to deny.

the sense of insecurity around one's wife & her ability to use her normal human power in independent thinking, feeling, saying and doing, undermines a good relationship and leads to all kinds of harbored hatred and dislike.

so, in general, when a society condones domestic violence, someone becoming distanced from own wife, and people bent backwards over with focus on fault finding against the wife, a conscientious society must ask itself: what is wrong with it?

Re: Is a wife

omg…sar say oper whooshingi wanted to attempt answering but I’m going to instead khisak from here :blush: