A general question:
Marriages may be made in heaven, but their fate is decided right here. Is a loveless marriage worth its while or is divorce the better way out?
Discuss
Re: Is a 'loveless marriage' worth its while?
Depends. It may be loveless but if there is mutual respect and tolerance for each other then it just might be worth it depending on the situation and people involved.
Re: Is a 'loveless marriage' worth its while?
Eh unless anyone has been in the situation, I don't think you can look out for an honest reply.
'Depending on the situation' 'Perhaps if we knew the background' 'Maybe there's a reason' is all you'll get.
My personal take, its no fun living in a loveless marriage.
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loveless marriage kills it all IMO.
marriage is itself a rocky mountain ride with all the ups and downs in the package ...it's only the spouse's affection and love which can make one get through the crummy days ! but like some posters said it all depends on the situation. if divorce can lead to family chaos and cutting off ties and if there is enough tolerance and respect then one can compromise. Same would be the case if children too are there, as the children are the ones to suffer the consequences of a divorce the most !
Re: Is a 'loveless marriage' worth its while?
Loveless marriage means absence of love after few years of marriage because of any reason or marrying someone whom we don't love at all?
I guess all the arranges marriages start as loveless marriages and we all need to give it a try to make these 'loveless' marriages a chance. As for absence of love after so many years is concerned, both the spouses need to look closely about the reasons of lack of love since its human nature that we tend to start loving anyone with whom we live and spend time.
Re: Is a ‘loveless marriage’ worth its while?
No its not.
Newsflash–you don’t have to be beaten to a bloody pulp to get a divorce 
Re: Is a 'loveless marriage' worth its while?
Depends. It may be loveless but if there is mutual respect and tolerance for each other then it just might be worth it depending on the situation and people involved.
Thats not the best definition of loveless marriage. For some people or marriages, love is defined by respect and tolerance, love naturally evolves into respect and tolerance. You can have all the romance (or love rather) in a marriage but if respect and tolerance are missing, the marriage is bound to explode soon or later.
Loveless marriage is pure suffering and deep sense of unhappiness.
Re: Is a 'loveless marriage' worth its while?
woh kya kehtay hayn k 'nikah k do bolon mayn Allah ne bari mohabbat dali hai '?
whatever happened to this age old saying?
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it may still work if they both know how to live respectably.
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Amen to that!
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wat is love anyways? its fiction!
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Divorce is an EASY way OUT for COWARDS! **mardaangii talaaq dene meN nahiiN, shaadii banaaye rakhne meN hai...asl mard vohii hai! **
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^wah wah, mokarar.
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divorce is never a first option
no matter how much you justify yourself, divorce leaves scar for the rest of the life
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^ do u think the scar of divorce goes just for the girl or do u think guys are equally effected?
Re: Is a 'loveless marriage' worth its while?
A general question:
Marriages may be made in heaven, but their fate is decided right here. Is a loveless marriage worth its while or is divorce the better way out?
Discuss
Ask the children if there are any, what do they say?
Re: Is a ‘loveless marriage’ worth its while?
Hope I never find the answer to this one
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Ask the children if there are any, what do they say?
I am a child of divorced parents. I wouldn't have it any other way !!!!
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^ do u think the scar of divorce goes just for the girl or do u think guys are equally effected?
I think the stigma of a divorce is more serious/heavy for a woman than for a man.
Sorry if that sounds sexist.
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I couldn't do it, I'd find it boring and derogatory. After a while I would be screaming and running to the nearest exit.
My parents were in a strange marraige - I think they are both better people as a result of it ending. Even though as kids we may have lost - being brother and sister (my dad got me and my mum got my brother), I would rather my dad be happy and not lose his sanity and the same goes for my mum, rather than them screaming like banshees at each other and having to watch that every day. MEH. Or watching a fake marriage and it eating me inside.