This makes me absolutely furious.
It’s men who start these wars, and women/children/the elderly/the sick who must pay the ultimate price. Some of you reading this are married, some of you have daughters of your own. Imagine how you would feel, God Forbid, if this happened to someone you knew personally…your mother, your daughter, your sister. Just imagine for a second.
What type of liberation is this? Even under Hussein’s regime, Iraq received a UNESCO award for furthering women’s literacy rates; today, Iraqi women don’t even feel safe walking outside alone. Who in their rational minds can call this liberation.
Rape (and Silence About It) Haunts Baghdad
Neela Banerjee, New York Times, 16 July 2003
In her loose black dress, gold hairband and purple flip-flops, Sanariya hops from seat to seat in her living room like any lively 9-year-old. She likes to read. She wants to be a teacher when she grows up, and she says Michael, her white teddy bear, will be her assistant.
But at night, the memory of being raped by a stranger seven weeks ago pulls her into its undertow. She grows feverish and has nightmares, her 28-year-old sister, Fatin, said. She cries, “Let me go!”
“I am afraid of the gangsters,” Sanariya whispered in the twilight of her hallway. “I feel like they are killing me in my nightmares. Every day, I have these nightmares.”
Since the end of the war and the outbreak of anarchy on the capital’s streets, women here have grown increasingly afraid of being abducted and raped. Rumors swirl, especially in a country where rape is so rarely reported.
**The breakdown of the Iraqi government after the war makes any crime hard to quantify.
But the incidence of rape and abduction in particular seems to have increased, according to discussions with physicians, law-enforcement officials and families involved.
A new report by Human Rights Watch based on more than 70 interviews with law-enforcement officials, victims and their families, medical personnel and members of the coalition authority found 25 credible reports of abduction and sexual violence since the war. Baghdadis believe there are far more, and fear is limiting women’s role in the capital’s economic, social and political life just as Iraq tries to rise from the ashes, the report notes.**
For most Iraqi victims of abduction and rape, getting medical and police assistance is a humiliating process. Deeply traditional notions of honor foster a sense of shame so strong that many families offer no consolation or support for victims, only blame.
Sanariya’s four brothers and parents beat her daily, Fatin said, picking up a bamboo slat her father uses. The city morgue gets corpses of women who were murdered by their relatives in so-called honor killings after they returned from an abduction — even, in some cases, when they had not been raped, said Nidal Hussein, a morgue nurse.
“For a woman’s family, all this is worse than death,” said Dr. Khulud Younis, a gynecologist at the Alwiyah Women’s Hospital. “They will face shame. If a woman has a sister, her future will be gone. These women don’t deserve to be treated like this.”
It is not uncommon in Baghdad to see lines of cars outside girls’ schools. So fearful are parents that their daughters will be taken away that they refuse to simply drop them off; they or a relative will stay outside all day to make sure nothing happens.
“Women and girls today in Baghdad are scared, and many are not going to schools or jobs or looking for work,” said Hanny Megally, executive director of the Middle East and North Africa division of Human Rights Watch. “If Iraqi women are to participate in postwar society, their physical security needs to be an urgent priority.”
Beyda Jafar Sadiq, 17, made the simple decision to go to school on the morning of May 22 and never returned. Her family has been looking for her ever since. They have appealed to every international nongovernmental organization, the Iraqi police and the American authorities. Her eldest brother, Feras, 29, has crisscrossed the country, visiting the morgue in Basra in the south, traveling to Amara and Nasiriya on reports from acquaintances that they saw a girl who looked like Beyda.
“I just want to find her,” said Beyda’s mother, Zakiya Abd, her eyes swollen with grief. “Whether she’s alive or dead, I just want to find her.”
Some police in Baghdad concede that at this point, there is little they can do to help. Their precinct houses were thoroughly looted after the war. Despite promises from the American authorities, Baghdad police still lack uniforms, weapons, communications and computer equipment and patrol cars.
“We used to patrol all the time before the war,” said a senior officer at the Aadimiya precinct house. “Now, nothing, and the criminals realize there is no security on the streets.”
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astagfirallah..