hm interesting question.
Don't ever let the fear build in ur child nor enhance the feelings of "dar". i've seen sum parents who tell their kids "yeh nahin kero doggy aa jay ga or jin aa jay ga" or sth along those lines. i just think u shud NEVER do that. The fear really affects a child's life negatively. I know i used to be scared of jins and churails when i was little and that fear was built by listening to stories from freinds. i still get scared sometimes to this day and it's not a good feeling.
Don't ever embarrass ur kid in front of som1 even if they r at fault. i c sum parents yell at their kids in front of their cousins or other adults. i think it affects their self esteem.
Do always support n encourage ur child for the positive things. it often happens that parents want their child to pursue a certain career while kid is interested in sth totally different. i think tat's one of teh things parents really have to b encouraging n supportive about tat if the kid's got talent or passion or interest then let him/her do it.
Do always treat ur girls and boys equally. i know it can be difficult especially when they r growing up tat boys can go out without accompnaying anyone at night but girls need to take some1 along. Even though girls need more safety, I think this aspect should be communicated to girls as to why they need to take some1 (bro, mom or dad) with them esp at night. Because when this is not communicated, then mayb girls start feeling that parents are not treating them equally. Also girls and boys should be treated equally where they can be such as education, career, etc.
Do have open communication with ur kids. I think it's a major factor in building trust with ur child and becoming friends with him/her.
Okay tat's all for now.