Thy guy is not over you! Don't go any where near him. No calls, no emails , no friend ship, no counseling.
I agree...he isnt over you at all. The other problem is, he wants you at his wedding which is really unfair to his new wife. He is supposed to be worried about her but instead he will be worried about showing off to you.
This girl he is marrying is innocent in all of this and deserves all the attention of her husband to be on her...not on you...which is where it will be if you go.