Jimmy,
I am not a lawyer.
I like to be sure that I understand what the other person is saying so that I don’t go forward with assumptions. Sometimes there are language barriers and other times there are other mitigating circumstances (e.g. emotions) that cloud an argument. I just like things to be clear so nobody feels that they have been wrongly interpretted.
And don’t worry, I am not gonna even try to guess what you want from women. It really is the least of my concerns.
Cheers!