Granted it is easier said than done. Nothing of value comes easily in this world.
Misery loves company Sara and often times participating and encouraging this sort of “blame the guy” mentality distracts the victims from what they really should be focused on: themselves.
It requires very little effort to place blame on someone else and it’s quite convenient too because it keeps us from having to take a long hard look at ourselves.
Truth of the matter is that the sooner one takes that critical look at onself the sooner you manage to claw your way back to ground zero.