Well you do have a point and when you have kids intially you're kinda different...you know adjusting to new roles and responsibilities...then you have a new type of love added in your life, a passion you never had before...a whole new set of feelings. It takes some time to get back to your old relationship with your spouse.** But, once you adjust, you get back to how things used to be.**
or even better sometimes. Theres a new level of understanding
pcg .. for god sake. .get married.. ..i mean .. all the original gs members are either become baba/maai ..or have 2/3 kids .. or eventually married.. and living happily-not ever after.
you are the only one left. think about your mission to destroy a guy life..