What are your views on being in a relationship or marrying a person that isn’t of your own race?
Could you do it?
Would you want to do it?
Ive noticed how desi boys have a BIG problem with their own girls being with guys out of their own race.
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Personally speaking I can't imagine myself with a non-Muslim or a non-Pakistani for that matter. Though, as long as two are Muslim, I see nothing wrong with it. If two people follow two different religons it would likely cause problems later on.
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I wouldn't marry a non-muslim myself but I don't have any negative thoughts about people who do have interracial relationships. People from outside our own race tend to be better than us in many ways. Pakis for example if they don't like someone we would be nice on people's face and talk about them when they're not there. Whereas, I find that white people simply avoid people who they don't like.
Desi guys are hypocrites as they sleep around themselves, tehy bag as many girlfriends as possible and when it comes to marriage they want a sati savitri wife. I say decent girls ought to avoid such pagals, hamain aise log nahin chahyea:snooty:
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Same here, I couldn't marry a non Muslim.
I've always wanted to marry a Pakistani but I'm currently with an Iraqi Kurdish guy who Ive been with for 2 years, but the relationships hit a rocky patch at the moment.
It''s so hard to adapt to a different culture though, his family is so different, I mean it's not massively different but f*cking hell I miss being able to crack Paki jokes with someone understanding me!!
I seem to always attract the Middle Eastern, White and European men :( Pakistani boys dont think I'm Paki lol.
If things dont work with him I'm definately sticking to my own, less hassle and easier!!
High five sister!!
The pakistani boys that I do know have a HUGE problem with non Pakistani guys paying attention to me etc… they go to the point where they want to start a fight with them over it. They believe a Paki girl should only be with a Paki guy its a sort of respect thing yawns!
SOME desi guys you mean 
High five sister!!
The pakistani boys that I do know have a HUGE problem with non Pakistani guys paying attention to me etc... they go to the point where they want to start a fight with them over it. They believe a Paki girl should only be with a Paki guy its a sort of respect thing yawns!
Really? Thats the first Ive heard of this kind of thing!
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Majority of paki boys in my town are druggies... affects their ability to adapt to modern society and acknowledge the fact we are in england not a village in pakistan :)
SOME desi guys you mean ;)
Are you hinting you are a shareef larka? lol
Was it that obvious? :biggthumb
Though I get MKD's point, one of my friends' like that; its quite funny actually :D
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My hubby is a desi and I'm a gori. I thank God/Allah every day for the blessings he brought to my life. My family and his both had their reservations about such difference in culture and religion but after almost 11 years of marital bliss I think even the most skeptical of relatives are relenting and coming to agree that love surely can conquer all.
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Agreed, my dad's brotheer's wife (my aunt) is white too, a convert. Their marriage is MashAllah still strong 13 or so years on. Though I think marriage between muslim and non-muslim would cause problems later on.
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^ Mash'Allah so happy for you :)
Its all up to the couple to make it work!!
Well done you two :D
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I have noticed that more Pakistani desies marry outside of their race/culture than Indian desies.
Outside of religion, is out of the question!!!
However, I have never liked/been attracted to any desi man, but for one :D, who I'm with now! But if it wasn't for him, I prolly would never marry a desi, just because of what I have seen in my family. The gora guy friends I have are true marriage material. And, Im sure there are lots of nice paki boys out there, but the ones I have met are just trash, the ones that party and drink and soo on. And the other ones are just moron's, who can't even talk to a girl face to face. I thought I would convert a guy and then get married, but my paki boytoy is perfect so no need for that:D!!!
Sometimes you come across a man that you have excellent chemistry with, enjoy his company and life is all good and he's not brown. Makes you wonder how life would be with a non-desi.
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There is this unspoken rule among paki men:
Paki women for Paki men. Paki men for all (women).
Live it. Love it.
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I dont live by that ^ :P
I try to keep away from desi guys as much as I can! Complete dimwits
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Interracial relationships are good. We get to know each other better. ;)