Re: International huq mehr
I did talk about Pakistani’s spending so much money on 3 day elaborate affairs.
How do you know if mehr will fulfill monetary needs for months or years? If she’s demanding all that now, what makes you think she’ll want to share it? If she wanted to share it, she’d have just assumed that what’s yours is hers, as in most marriages, and there was never any initial need to demand such a thing. Isn’t that the concept of how most pakistani parents get their daughters married by forgiving the meher or asking for just representative AED 100- that whatever is the husbands’ will be the daughters too so there is no need to demand for all that money.
That aside, she’s under no obligation to give or share her mehr. It is her gift and she gets to keep it. So again, there’s no guarantee that it would fulfill monetary requirements. I’m just curious about if you’d judge her for making such a demand.