Re: Interferring when a matter of security
Woman if this is a serious issue why are you typing about on GS? Now on to some simple questions to see if your "concern" has actual value.
- Do you know if your sister tried to find someone to look after the kids before she dropped off the babysitter?
- Do you know if she did as a first resort or a last resort?
- Do you know if this happens often of was it a one off thing?
What other "security" concerns do you have regarding your sister and her children? Does she let them run around with broken glass? Does she tell to accept candy from strangers? Does she regularly leave them alone with no supervision for hours?
What exactly are these numerous security concerns that you have?
Look if this was my sister I would ask her if I could help, instead of raining on her parade, I would be supportive. Acknowledge she has a rough deal, offer to help her when I can. Amazing you are ready to judge her and not offer any sort of help? You have not mentioned you have offered help to lighten her load or make it easier.
You know you can sort out your babysitter security concern by offering drop off the babysitter when your sister is not home.