I dont know if u guys heard this story or not but i found it to be interesting
I was just watching the news and they were covering a story that happened 2 or 3 months back .... so yeah in our city this teenage girl got pregnant and was having a baby at the age of 15... so yeah at the time of birth she was alone at the house, plus her parents were ina nd out of the country they really didn't know she was pregnant, so yeah at the time of birth she was alone when it was happening she got really scared and confused..... The sad part is when the baby was dilevered the 15 year old went out and left the kid in the garbage can :-s... like very late at night......
So yeah early morning there was some lady jogging, and heard noises from the garbage can, she took the baby out and informed the authorities... Lol all night in cold, canadian cold the baby survived... This is first Xmas for that baby and yeah the baby is living with her 15 year old mom and her grand mom....
INteresting eh! the teenager wasn't really charged for the fact that she got really nervous, scared and was alone...
iVE heard lots of stories like this, girl getting pregnant, parents being too stupid to know anything and she dumps the baby in a garbage can. It's a sad sad sad situation and an awful stain on society. The guy screws the girl and runs off, of course, the girl was dumb and naive enough to open her legs in the first place, the parents are so fokking blind and retarded to what's going on with their own child. Poor kid.
A grl going through the pain?
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A child surving the Canadian cold in garbage?
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that the grl wasn't charged of the offence?
I dunno why ppl make fun of these incidents.. whats so amusing here that you have to discuss on the board?
Now thats such a desi mental model that ppl will forget sad incidents that happened to them but desis won't let them.. they would raise the issue with some spices added, whenever they are bored, to entertain themselves!
Gemini just wanted to let ppl know if they didn't know about it.. thre is nothing to be discussed if u dont wanna disscuss anything just dont simple i am not mocking anyone or anything... and i never asked for any opinions if u wanna post them do... no one is forced...
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*Originally posted by Gemini the Great: *
ok whats so interesting here?
A grl going through the pain?
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A child surving the Canadian cold in garbage?
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that the grl wasn't charged of the offence?
I dunno why ppl make fun of these incidents.. whats so amusing here that you have to discuss on the board?
Now thats such a desi mental model that ppl will forget sad incidents that happened to them but desis won't let them.. they would raise the issue with some spices added, whenever they are bored, to entertain themselves!
She needs a double barrel shotgun inserting inside her and blowing her brains striaght out through the top of her head, nervous and scared my arse, she doesn't deserve that child, the authorities should get involved and find it a suitable home.
Young girls getting pregnant is no big deal, nowadays most are having sex at 12-13 and they take the neccesary precautions and if they don't they are responsible mothers, she's a buddi at 15, ought to know better, very irresponsible and untrustworthy.
....Lol all night in cold, canadian cold the baby survived... This is first Xmas for that baby and yeah the baby is living with her 15 year old mom and her grand mom....
INteresting eh! the teenager wasn't really charged for the fact that she got really nervous, scared and was alone...
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what was so funny here that you had to laugh out loud.. it was just too much for me to take that the grl already suffered but now you actually want to discuss her deed w/o even knowing the cause of pregnancy or her situation!
Hawai Fire: you didn't ask for the opinion, you didn't intend to disucss it but wanted to let ppl know about the incident just for the sake of it.. I wonder why?!?
Sara: my reply wasn't directed towards you by any means.. you did make sense that it does happen often, but then we really dun have any right to judge these grls or to discuss them!
Sorry if you were offended.
That's really sad they gave the baby back to the 15 year old. How is she ever going to explain that she basically dumped and left her own child for dead? Sooner or later that child will find out. Anyways, it's all too common an occurence these days. My husband told me about a patient he had, a teenage Muslim girl, I believe in head scarf. She had a secret life, a black boyfriend who she was having sex with and had gotten pregnant. I'm not sure how many previous times she was pregnant but she had an abortion before.
The reason she came into the hospital was because her belly kept growing and she tried to hide it under baggy clothes and just stay away from her parents. But soon it just was out of control. She was very confused and found out that it wasn't a pregnancy after all but a tumour growing in her belly. She let it go so far out of fear of her parents questioning her. Eventually she revealed some secrets to her parents. I'm sure it's also the parents fault for not equipping her with enough trust or confidence to be able to speak to them about her life in the first place. Who's to blame, the teenagers, parents or society. I think it's a bit of everything.
My husband didn’t give me her name and address. He was just very disillusioned..maybe the wrong word. But he wanted to get it out. He was disappointed with ‘our people’. We all have that feeling once in a while. But there was no breaching the Hippocratic Oath.
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*Originally posted by nia_khan: *
sorry friend its not interesting its another shamefull story of another rascal who left his mess in another female.
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taali doh haaton say bajti hai.
the guy was a sack o shyt for knocking someone up and leaving
but the girl does not get any sympathy points either, if you are going to go do the deed, you have to take responsibility for it.
its not just a shameful story of a rascal who left "his" mess in another female
but its also a shameful story of a bimbo who could not handle the consequences of her own actions
its also a shameful story of a moron who tried to kill a defenseless child..by throwing the child in trash. The freak could have dropped the baby off at a shelter or something, but throwing it in garbage meant almost a certain death for the baby, while she would then get away scott free.
this is also a shameful story of parents who did not even notice that their daughter was pregnant.
Lets not just point the finger at the "rascal" who left "his mess" in side another female. He sure has a lot of blame here, but not all. He abandoned the pregnant girl..provided he knew that he had knocked her up,..but he did not throw the newborn in garbage.
Hawai, I never heard that but yeah Ive heard similar stories. I don't know if it was in Calgary but someone told me that this lady who had like 3 or 4 kids killed her children pushing em into the swimming pool and then committed suicide (I guess).
I don't think this girl was naive or innocent or anything closer to that. Getting confused is a common thing during this kind of situation but dumping a kid is just sad and a naive and confused person won't do that I think. He's YOUR kid...he came out of YOUR body...how could you possibly leave that innocent little jaan in a garbage can even if you get nervous? Good that the kid is with her mother now but I think she should've been charged for that.
He was just very disillusioned..maybe the wrong word. But he wanted to get it out. He was disappointed with ‘our people’. We all have that feeling once in a while. But there was no breaching the Hippocratic Oath.