Interactions of the 3rd kind

[StrangeOne]

Re: Interactions of the 3rd kind

@PapuChiri2020

The thing is that the Girl A From south africa is super excited to get married. She is already making plans for what we’ll wear at our Nikkah. She’s very beautiful, she’s not some nerd who wants to just get married because no one will want her. Her excitement comes from actually being married. But the western girl SHOWS 0 interest. Instead she says that she’s nervous and that it’s a big decision. I told her you wouldn’t feel this way if i were a doctor would you? ( I didn’t say that actually, I was thinking about that).

But you now do you understand my confusion? It’s like Western Girl has all the qualities I want in a woman but her attitude SUCKS A$$. Like she’s so reserved and haughty. She’s as if she thinks she’s Princess of akraba or something. While the south african homely girl has these qualities too she’s humble, but bit of a language barrier. I wish women would just be more understanding. I’m not sure why Western girl is so reluctant to get married? She texts me when she feels like it. When we met we talked for a good Hour straight. We were in a restaurant, she was laughing. Enjoying. But then again she never shows the same enthusiasm in texts. In texts she’s like “MEH”…

Please as if your attitude isn’t princessy as well. The other girl was an anomaly not a rule. This one’s flat out telling you she’s nervous and all you’re thinking about is how you want to be pampered. I would totally back away from such self absorption. Not everyone texts like a pro or gets the message across easily in words. She isn’t complicated at all. Only because you aren’t getting that level of attention that you’re twisting them to suit your own ego.

In desi land no rings means no relationship. She is still considering you and she has the right to be cautious. You could potentially piss all over her plans and goals and her entire life all in one go. How do you even know you’re the only rishta she’s considering?