Re: Inter-National Relationships...
Everyone goes on about Islam all the time but similarly remain a very nationalistic people...Im not saying its to do with racism...It could be just that one wants to stay in their comfort zone...
Ov met girls from every race and if i settle down im quite lucky cos mums happy if im happy kind of thing...But for a lot of people i know that isnt the case...
Bengalis and Pakistanis it seems especially girls cant get married outside their national group even if the person they want to be with is Muslim...
Lol i had that problem with a Bengali girl once...she would never be able to justify someone like me to her strict Bengali parents...Damn id even struggle with Pakistani parents cos i am only partly pakistani...
** I also know enough girls...who are Muslim but not Pakistani who claim that their Pakistani boyfriendcant marry them because mum and dad wont accept it...**
People make issue of language barrier...thats bull****...we all live in england and we can all communicate with each other...
As for culture...we're all Muslims living in Britain and surely cultural difference isnt a bad thing...it gives us something to learn about...
Im not suggesting people not stick to their own but what i am wondering is why its an issue especially with parents if the persons partner is not of the same national group as them?...
Arrggghhh that annoys the hell out of me, dotn even get me started...
I still remember one of my very good friends had the biggest crush on this white guy who was a convert and mashallah a very very good muslim, pakistani guys cant even come close. He had a pure heart. But she couldn't even imagine ever being with him cuz of her parents, now shes married to some desi guy who has a nice job but she still doesn't feel the same way about him like she did about this white guy.