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doggystyle 
GS admin has some interesting tricks up his sleeve, to be luring in traffic
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He said I should watch out because he has the power to mess up my life.
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Did you tell your parents? This guy is a psycho.
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Please just tell us the engagement is off
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Did you tell your parents? This guy is a psycho.
Yes I told my mother. She was quite startled at first but now she thinks maybe he just needs time to calm down. I said if you keep threatening and scaring me like this again and again then maybe we should think about this relationship again. He doesn't see anything wrong in his behaviour and now he is accusing me of not wanting him after he has done so many 'good' things for me , I'm not exactly sure what he is talking about. Mom says stop reacting just don't say anything and everything will be okay.
Niether you or he should get married. Not to each other, not to anyone else. There is some growing up that is needed.
This may sound harsh, but it is meant with sincerity
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Man, I was just on that site today. Taught me what to put in a cover letter. And me realize I was putting everything you shouldn’t in mine haha
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this thread is hilarious! 
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For God's sake, please don't marry this guy- things will NOT be okay- surely you can see that
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I think you're trolling. but if you two do get married then at least you're doing the rest of the world a favor by saving innocent future spouses from you 2.
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you two sound like yer in high school still :P
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mess up ur life how? mud slinging? thats all he has, oh and the infamous threat "log kiya kaheyngaye" if ur engagement breaks.
the more u feed his ego the **worse **it will get.
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I listened to my moms advice and stopped reacting totally, I basically started ignoring him. Then he got scared and said he made a mistake he hurt me but he is sorry and he means it. Sometimes he is fine and sometimes he starts again. So I told him okay don't worry everything will be okay but I am not talking to him as much like before because I am afraid the minute I start be loving and responsive he will begin to get negative again. I don't know if he is calm now because he is afraid now that I will leave him or because he is really okay. I love him and don't want to leave him but I want him to behave. Should I keep behaving distant like this because it is working or what should I do now ?
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So what is your plan after getting married? Are you going to keep a long distance reserve relationship for him to behave?
Remember, this behavior is not going to change once your married.
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first of all i cannot see a reason for laughing at poor girl misery. all of those who are laughing and making fun of her needs to be bit more sensitive regarding other people agony i must say.
i agree she sounds immature but everybody here should understand she is in love with him and they are engaged it is not always easiest in our culture to get out of relationship. no one of us is perfect. we have to accept and love the people who they are. if i would be you i would totally ignore him even if he is trying to contact me untill he learns his lesson. then sit with him and just tell him look i love you but it isnt working we do have to start respecting each other. he has no right to say abusive words to u neither did u to him. and if you still reckon you both wont be able to respect or stop abusing each other then call off the wedding no matter how hard it is. as relationship without respect would be living hell for both of spouse no matter how much they say they are in "love". these would be the words you would be using infront of your kids if u both get married. and how can kids respect their parents if they dont see their parents respecting each other