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& how would Midnight Express “ask” exactly ?
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you dont love him, he doesnt love you. you guys dont even respect each other, move on.
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I dont know , why dont you ask his genes ?
nice try at deflecting my question by throwing in a question of ur own. But it doesnt answer mine
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you dont love him, he doesnt love you. you guys dont even respect each other, move on.
If it were only that easy to do so.
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talk to your parents. and for future remember respect is a two way street if you wont respect your significant other, he won't either. there is no love if there is no respect.
oh and i dont think he will ever forgive you for what you started so finding your own ways is the best solution for the two of you.
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Three months is too long. Try and convince him hes none of those things you called him preferably via email. If Hes not interested anymore, you will have to move on whether you like it or not.
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I would dump y fiance if he said such nasty things to me.
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Both parties know it was a joke, I actually don't see it as THAT big of a deal to break a relationship over. If insulting or disrespect is an ongoing behaviour then yes, that is a problem. People need to learn to forgive and forget, if you have a good loving person in your life, it really isn't that hard to overlook stupid stuff like this.
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Well yes Hulaloop is right; Situation comes in life when we throw words without even thinking the further effect. Sensible couples should not take it so ruthlessly. This is where you can test fidelity of your relations. Breaking up isn’t the right decision. He knows it was just a hard talk and should forgive you. The same way you have forgotten his bad words. Such an egoistic nature in never good for any relationship.
Try sending him flower with a Sorry Card. Expressing him you will never ever ever do this again and expect the same from him. Write him a love letter. If he loves you and want to continue, He will come back. Else move on. He isn’t worth it.
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for some reason i am not getting the feeling that she loves him and that dude hasnt contacted her for 3 months , that is a long time.
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Umm, just one thing, are you sure using the word "lover" in your title is appropriate?
Insulting lover
People say far more meaner things in a marriage (atleast I speak for mine) and you have to have tough skin. I understand you hurt him and hit a sensitive nerve but I have seen tougher schoolgirls. If I were you, I really would question marrying such a sensitive insaan (not that there is anything wrong with being sensitive except zindagi thori azaab ban jati hai). Perhaps this was for the best!!
Excellent memes!! I would personally like them all but my laptop is dead!!!
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Fatty baldy ugly dog? HAHAHAHAHAHAHA
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he fears you find him unattractive and repulsive now. Thats why he is keeping a distance. You need to do something that assures him you find him attractive and were just trying to piss him off.
Imagine if a guy jokingly or in anger taunts his wife on her small breasts/butt, chubbiness, wrinkles, etc. She wouldn't want to get intimate with him again.
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Lol!!! @ fatty, baldy, ugly, doggy.
I think deep down inside you struck a cord with his insecurities.
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Maybe it's me but out of all of the insults, the one that I would personally find hard to get over is being called a dog.
Fat, ugly, bald - would hurt my feelings and I might suffer feelings of inadequacies, but being called a dog would make me question my partner's upbringing and their tehzeeb. There are certain things you NEVER say, no matter how angry you get - it's a line you don't cross not because of how the insult sounds to the recipient, but rather how the insult or name-calling reflects of speaks about the person delivering the insult.
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Salam to all members. Ive just been a visitor for the past couple of weeks but now i have run into a big problem with my soon to be husband. We got into a stage in one of our conversations where we started insulting each other, it just escalated from me laughing at something but i didnt mean anything mean by it. After he insulted me later on i called him a fatty baldy ugly dog and i know it sounds really bad but i was just reacting because i felt hurt. Though now he is acting as if i went overboard and saying that since that day he wants to rip me apart. It has been three months and he is still not talking to me and when i try to he starts screaming and yelling and cursing at me. I still love him. How can i go about repairing the relationship from here.
Hi,
Did you try apologizing? you know there is an Urdu saying "kabhi kabhi hathon se di huee gaanthein danton se kholni par jati hein".
I think you did go over-board calling him names and holding no punches back. He is a man and you devastated his ego. For him, you showed your true colors even though you were reacting without logically thinking. You need to keep working on this if you want him back. If you are intimate with him (as the title suggest 'insulting LOVER'), work harder pleasing him and talk to him openly about this.
Regards
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Man, what kind of nicks are popping up these days.
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People say far more meaner things in a marriage (atleast I speak for mine) and you have to have tough skin.
:( thats pretty sad if u called ur hubby or he called worse names than being fat ugly or a dog .
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Maybe it's me but out of all of the insults, the one that I would personally find hard to get over is being called a dog.
Fat, ugly, bald - would hurt my feelings and I might suffer feelings of inadequacies, but being called a dog would make me question my partner's upbringing and their tehzeeb. There are certain things you NEVER say, no matter how angry you get - it's a line you don't cross not because of how the insult sounds to the recipient, but rather how the insult or name-calling reflects of speaks about the person delivering the insult.
He has called me worse things than dog. You are talking about tehzeeb, well you do not know him. He is not exactly Akbar from Nakhlao.