Ok I have a question here. A bunch of yous are imported wives or semi-imported (living in Amreeka for a couple of years before being wed). What would you choose for your sons and daughters?
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^ i inspire thee 
Just expect the most politically correct cliche’d answers 
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Yawwrrr, kyon fazool baat kartay ho 
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Im not an import but I would want my son to marry a girl here
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It's clear how much ABCD women are jealous of imported women. This thread is a proof.
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Yes, I am a bitter old 39 year old hag that is so jealous because I couldn't get married to a nice boy from back home. :)
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^ 
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Yes, I am a bitter old 39 year old hag that is so jealous because I couldn't get married to a nice boy from back home. :)
You couldn't have gotten a nice man even from there. Accept it and it will make u less bitter.
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My kids can marry whomever they want as long as there is respect, open communication, and their partner is Muslim. I don’t really care if they fall in love with a fob or an ABCD, because that’s not what defines a good marriage.
p.s I hope to god I won’t have to choose who my kids marry. If I have to find them someone, and go through the rishta process for them, damn they’re gonna have to hear it from me 
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ihadtoeditoutmypost:mad:
LOL yeah eh! Unless I’m really peckish that day 
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This fob ABCD stuff is just as crappy as the zaat paat stuff.
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The difference being zaat paat is something that has existed for centuries and only now we are slowly rooting it out (still have a long way to go). The FOB/freshie attitude is something that has developed in recent years among second generation desis out west.
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^ Sure, but both concepts are still quite retarded. These things are never supposed to be on our checklist for marriage in Islam. Pretty much what Gaia said.
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The difference being zaat paat is something that has existed for centuries and only now we are slowly rooting it out (still have a long way to go). The FOB/freshie attitude is something that has developed in recent years among second generation desis out west.
Not quite just in second generation desis out west,
while they may have a Fobia..the transplants have an attitude towards the secind generation desis. As evident in a number of threads in this forum.
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Not quite just in second generation desis out west, while they may have a Fobia..the transplants have an attitude towards the secind generation desis. As evident in a number of threads in this forum.
It may seem like it here but a lot of your regular fobs have no idea that this bias exists against them until they actually go to the west. Only makes sense that they would end up developing an attitude too.
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ugh nothing from back home. but then i am not abcd.
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I'm usually pretty jealous of the imported ladies, they always bring so many clothes and their mum/sisters are sending them new clothes all the time and here I am, looking at garbage kapray online.
My children can marry whoever, but my bahu be the gifting type :D
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ugh nothing from back home. but then i am not abcd.
Yeaaaahhh! What are you then? I mean...are all imported wives the same?
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i don't plan to stay imported for that long either so when the time would come (IA) for my son/daughter..i think I'd go for a girl back home ... :p
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Yeah but guess what…western desis also have to deal with crappy attitudes from “fobs” as well.
recent experience, I was dealing with a client (who was Pakistani) and I had to ask him how to spell his name…cz you know there’s a few ways to spell Muhammad, and he was like “aap ko Muhammad ki spelling nai pata? tsk tsk”. (meanwhile fat ******* is stiting there with his dhoti and not even bothering to close his legs).
