Insight needed on this rishta/relationship

[sherazade]

Re: Insight needed on this rishta/relationship

@Muzna

It’s hard to speculate how long one should wait because we are talking about individual situations.
His family could be caught up with something that you’re not aware of.
I would say sit tight and let him and them reach out to you and yours’.

3 to 4 weeks of delay is not unreasonable.
Unless you have another pot on the burner…

Hi!

I really respect all of you who have been telling me to wait - and I understand risthaas don’t happen in an instant. Plus our situation is even more difficult because we’re all scattered around in different parts of the world. I guess why I was expecting more information was because this wasn’t a typical arranged marriage ristha process. It was me and the guy who liked each other, and coordinated the whole meeting and ristha itself (even before we had met ourselves!) So although, I don’t expect an immediate response from the family… I kind of expected a bit more insight from the guy himself. However, all he’s told me is “my parents really liked you” and “i’m hopeful” and of course that he and his family really enjoyed the meetings and stuff. I don’t want to be pushy, but I definitely don’t want to be in this limbo for an extended period.