Okay, rule of thumb for rishtas is never to get rishtaydars involved unless they can provide info about future in laws. They’re usually the ones who meddle and mess things up and create problems where there are none. My rishta talks took like a month to finalise into a haan and nobody knew until the final yes. One of my aunts knew because she had met my husband before and she really liked him so she wanted to vouch for him. Go on an information diet asap and get your parents to tell them that they’ll be informed as soon as any progress is made.