Insight needed on this rishta/relationship

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Re: Insight needed on this rishta/relationship

@Illuminate

It’s only been 4 days since your initial post meaning it’s been a week and half since the meeting. I think you should give them a little more time. Since all families are in different parts of the world this can get challenging. If I were you I would limit my interaction as to not get too attached and not pester the dude either. Stay friendly. Remember to stay confident and happy! If it’s going to work out, it will, just keep making dua and things will work out for the best.

His thoughts are probably that he wants things to work out because he’s making things move forward in that direction. I bet he’s waiting for his parents too so just let the news come naturally and in the mean time, do you!

Hi Illuminate,

Thanks so much for your response! I don’t mind waiting a bit.. but my family (especially rishte-daar!) keep inquiring about what’s going on and whether it’s a yes or no. They think because the guy and I like each other, and we talk - I should be able to get some inside info. But I think you’re right! It hasn’t been that long at all… The guy has definitely been consistent in the effort he’s making, and things seem to be going well between us. Plus, had it been an official ‘no’ from his side, I don’t think he would continue talking to me this way and moving forward as you said. I guess I will just relax, make dua and give it more time. Thanks so much for your very insightful response!