what are their qualities?
how can they be identified?
what is their tell-tale?
share.
best,
Dushwari
Re: Insensitive and mean-spirited husbands
You title speaks for itself. Insensitive and mean... what else could desrcibe their qualities? How else could they be identified?
Re: Insensitive and mean-spirited husbands
their mean ways. for instance letting the wife down always, unforgivingly.
taunting, cursing, putting down, comparing, regretting marrying her.
one by one, little by little, how does the grand meanness become obvious, shortly after marriage?
Re: Insensitive and mean-spirited husbands
jst taunting taunting and taunting all the time..and trust me its so irritating ..i hve seen a few hubbies dng that..mean guys
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Re: Insensitive and mean-spirited husbands
There have been many studies on the subject. Some of the traits of abusive husbands identified in these studies are like these:
Abusive husbands are violent.
A wife abuser tends to be filled with anger, resentment, suspicion, and tension. He also, underneath all his aggressive behavior, can be insecure and feel like a loser. He may use violence to give vent to the bad feelings he has about himself or his lot in life. Home is one place he can express those feelings without punishment to himself. If he were angry with his boss and struck him, he would pay the price. But all too often he gets away without penalty when he beats his wife. She becomes the target of his vengeance, and he gets the satisfaction he's looking for.
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for both guys & girls you should look for an some1 who is honourable, always tries his/her best to carry out their promises or responsibilitys, kindness, honesty, reliability & all positive qualities usually come along with the above qualities. Negative or what i call weak qualities are selfishness, materialistic, two-facedness & insecure are all qualities which are in 99% of cases absent from people who have the previous described character.
I hate weak people.
Re: Insensitive and mean-spirited husbands
I know one in-person. He used to be my friend. He repeatedly taunted and disrespected his wife in front of others. I once tried to stop him and he got upset. So I decided to cut off with him. I also blame his wife who refuses to stand up for herself. But she is also "majboor" because she feels she can not do it without her husband in this country. I told her this is the ONLY country where you can probably do it without this asshole.
Re: Insensitive and mean-spirited husbands
women can prevent their husbands from being mean.
though, they will risk their sense of dignity if they were to let down teach anything teachable to their husbands.
yet, in the long run, by enabling the husbands to come to term with the husbands' own flaws, wives can prove to be really sincere partners, for they will bring a positive change in their husbands.