Re: insecure about my skin colour
Women/girls with any shade of skin color can be very attractive.
Gori does not mean pretty, gori can be extremely ugly or un-attractive.
Hope I do not have to prove this by posting ugly gori women or prove darker women are also extemely attractive.
More importantly if the color is not to acceptable level, then education, background, personality and attitude does help.
Reality is that very fair skinned prefer darker partner and darker people prefer lighter skinned people to marry.
There are creams for very light skinned women to use so they could look darker. Tanning booths make lots of money on that also. Sun bathing is another proof even light skinned people are not happy with the color of their skin and willing to take chance of skin cancer to look darker.
Hope OP feels better now. 
Yes. Good way to put it.
As a general advise: Don’t get carried away loving yourself. 