Initial self disclosure

at times, with friends or at work, you might be either wanting to trust others’ or for them to learn and gain hope from hearing about them, share your life expriences with other people.

this initial self disclosure can be a good thing. it can develop a sense of trust among interdependent people as people who care for eac other or wish each other well.

but if the person you are speaking to is not a nice person and likes to tell upon others and kick up dirt or relate your information in a jester manner, how would you react? & what would you like to do, to prevent such people from vilating others like this?

Just talk about general stuff...like 'oh there's a sale going on here' or 'we need to get this work done'..no need to bring up any personal story

u cant do anything.. joh baat mooh se nikli samjo voh gaih..cant come back