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how to win friends and influence people?

also share

Fundamental techniques in handling people ?
Secret of dealing people ?
How to arguing with sweet friends ?

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be nice to them :)

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hmm but its not possible for All the tim "to say sath salam to every1 " :)

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**Basic Conversational Principles

1.During the first few minutes of any conversation, you have three goals:

a. Find out a few things about the other person.
B. Be able to say a few things about yourself.
c. Find something in common. A good conversation is like a tennis game.

  1. A conversation is like a tennis game. It involves good back-and-forthing.

  2. Alternate between making statements, asking questions, offering information, and asking something about the other person.

    1. Use the word “you” often and the word “I” less. 5. Use words such as “we”, “our”, “ourselves,” and “us.”
    2. When discussing business, do not use slang or jargon.

  3. Try to establish a feeling that you and the person you are conversing with are on the same wavelength. Eye Contact Establish good eye contact.

Eye Contact :-Establish good eye contact. Practice with friends and family until you are able to do so while conversing. Do not overdo this, however. Look away from time to time as unrelenting eye contact can also make other people uncomfortable.

Conversation Fillers that Show You're Listening · “How interesting.”
· “I understand what you mean.”
· “Really?”
· “What an accomplishment!”
**

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great but what i think abt me is

"Me Quiet n shy at times,lots of Charm,Appeal, n Attraction,Pleasant attitude, Flirtatious Smile,Adventurous,Sensitive,Loyal in Love,wants 2 love Ohh wait..not now Atleast,Faithful n tender partner,Very generous,many talents,Loves Children,Needs Affectionate Partner.

Although I am responsible for my own actions, and i know how to treat people. I always have goals to reach and I really work hard to get there, I am competitive. My friends are really important to me and I appreciate what I have, I sometimes over react that's because I am sensitive. I am very broad-minded. I can be very quiet when I have something on my mind. I am very shy. Some people say that i am cute and funny. I have a little or selective group/Company of friends. I am not "popular" but i am not a "geek" as well :)

what else we need and what abt u ?

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give them expensive gifts
take them to dinners
wash their laundry
take their dog for a walk
cook them breakfast
etc etc

:chai:

mubarak ho! mubarak ho
mubarak ho! mubarak ho
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Uncle's options only apply stalker ....tht u can do only ...everyone else is not tht free and energetic to do all these things.....
wash their laundry
take their dog for a walk
cook them breakfast
etc etc

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how to win friends and influence people?

^ There is a book on that with the exact title. Maybe you should read that.

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Uncle plz dont tell me ur experiences …How often u do laundry for her and their family lol :clown:

MALAL on HUM TV
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:hehe:

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:chai:

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uncle really hillarious:omg:

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:omg:

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change your lense change your mind… :k:

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how to change my mind :)

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i never wanted to influence ppl

someday my hubby will influence me :blush:

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Y ? he will ?

aaj kal..
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becaz he will be influenced by me :phati:

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acheee khush feh miyaan hai :) , if he want to go for another1 , app allow kerai geee :)

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hahahahhahahhah vely funny ..obviousely man r incharge of this freaken planet so no surprise there.:snooty: ..lol