Infertility

[Jasmine_Tea]

Re: Infertility

@Ansoon

I understand what you are going through. As you said, it is a shallow thought and I am sure that this is an emotional reaction to the stress this entire process brings with it. My wife and I went through something similar recently. I will share some of my story, it may help you.

We have been married for 7 years. 2 years into our marriage, we found out that we can’t have kids the old natural way. I was heart broken but I saw how much more this news had impacted my wife. It was stressful time. She needs you more than anyone else right now. Be with her. Sometimes, it is the stress of not getting pregnant that actually hinders the success of fertility treatments. I am not sure exactly what is the issue with you and your, but patience helps.

I would suggest that you both go on a vacation somewhere nice. Spend some time away from all the stress and the constant reminders of infertility. Relax, change the atmosphere, give her attention and let her give you attention.

PM me if you need someone to talk to. You are not a coward, you are just stressed.

Everyone’s anger in this thread makes sense. But I am really glad you are offering support to OP. This is no doubt a very difficult time for Lostone1 and you as well. Things can get way worse if we don’t have support available. I hope he takes you up on the offer and I hope him and his wife find a way through it. Wishing you and your wife all the strength too.