Re: Infertility and marriage
My situation is a bit different as its our choice not to have baby for while. Im been married for 4 years now and lots of people pass some weird comments and try to advise me why are not we having babies, its good to concieve in a early age, now we don’t want children what if Allah won’t bless us on the time we want.. That sentence really bugs me and I actually get upset and ask myself hundred time what will I do if that really happens to me and then make lots of dua to Allah swt plz forgive us if we are wrong .
People actually don’t realise even when they trying advise us still hurts and we dont need their advises. I get to listen these advises and taunts almost everyday. In our community auntys dont ask husbands about it they just tend to fire wives with their taunts and sometimes they get well nasty answers from me too, I know it sounds a bit rude, when they dont care or bother to think for a while what im saying then why shall I do, it actually helps and make them not to ask me same question next time. lol
Adoption?
I don’t get it. Why do we think that adoption is not an available option? If you can’t have babies then you can always adopt one. There are too many orphan children in the world that could use a good home. I know I don’t want children right now but when time comes and I can’t have one, I will be just as happy to adopt one.