Re: inequality and its flaw
Peace
The flaw of relationships is often blamed on the inequality of them. This may perhaps be a misnoma. The issue is really that before being bound by a relationship which in every respect is a contract, the parties should be clear of the roles that are expected to be undertaken.
In addition to this during the relationship, flexibility and consideration needs to prevail between the two parties to accomodate scenarios which are unexpected or to bend towards a different norm as and when people change through their experiences.
Very vaguely putting it ... if a submissive person enters a relationship knowing that the other person will dominate may be more at home than a person who is not submissive.
The issue is very complex and a lot of thought needs to go into the relationship the worst thing is to let it be carried by pure emotion, because emotions can be love but they can also be anger or resentment. Usually people will act odd when in stress and these signs should be recognised. Also it should be encouraged that committment becomes a life principle of both parties and that to curb distraction people need to channel their energies especially sexual on to one another.
All the advice given to chaste people before marriage should be retained for after marriage ...