diff families and individuals handle things differently.
many people may be liberal and other may not be.
sometimes, important things will come about only when the individuals and the families are sane and rational
, pragmatic and realistic in deciding about two peoples’ decision to become life partners or be in a relationship.
why do people forget this aspect of familial differences , when a blanket statment is given to Muslim and Pakistani families that they are very conservative or opressive towomen?
i think, there is some degree of opression to men, as well.
they get married here and there, because their parents want them to.
and then their lives are just as unhappy as their parnters’
it is essential to at least get to know the life partner even within arranged marriage sequences.
any thoughts?