India's 'one month wives' sex tourism for Muslims from Middle East and Africa

Is this allowed in Middle East countries? Or Arabs are taking advantage of poverty in India? **
Visitors want to marry because they believe prostitution is forbidden under Islam.

A 17-year-old girl has exposed the scale of Islamic sex tourism in India where Muslim men from the Middle East and Africa are buying ‘one month wives’ for sex.**

India’s ‘one month wives’ sex tourism

Campaigners for Muslim women’s rights said while short term ‘contract marriages’ are illegal in India and forbidden in Islam, they are increasing in Hyderabad, in southern India, where wealthy foreigners, local agents and ‘Qazis’ – government-appointed Muslim priests – are exploiting poverty among the city’s Muslim families.

The victim, Nausheen Tobassum, revealed the scale of the problem when she escaped from her home last month after her parents pressurised her to consummate a forced marriage to a middle aged Sudanese man who had paid around £1,200 for her to be his ‘wife’ for four weeks.

Teenager exposes India’s ‘one month wives’ sex tourism - Telegraph

She told police she had been taken by her aunt to a hotel where she and three other teenager girls were introduced to a Sudanese oil company executive. The ‘groom’, Usama Ibrahim Mohammed, 44 and married with two children in Khartoum, later arrived at her home where a Qazi performed a wedding ceremony.

According to Inspector Vijay Kumar he had paid 100,000 Rupees (around £1,200) to the girl’s aunt Mumtaz Begum, who in turn paid 70,000 Rupees to her parents, 5,000 Rupees to the Qazi, 5,000 Rupees to an Urdu translator and kept 20,000 Rupees herself. The wedding certificate came with a ‘Talaknama’ which fixed the terms of the divorce at the end of the groom’s holiday.

“The next day he came to the house of the victim girl and asked her to participate in sex but she refused. She is a young girl and the groom is older than her father,” Inspector Kumar told The Telegraph.

   Her parents reassured him they would persuade their daughter and told her she    would be punished if she did not. Instead she ran out of their tiny one room    home in Hyderabad's Moghulpuri neighbourhood and was rescued by a police    patrol. The police arrested the groom, the victim's aunt and the Qazi, and    issued a warrant for her parents' arrest – Nausheen is a minor under Indian    law and cannot marry until she reaches 18. Her parents are now in hiding but    will be charged with arranging a child marriage, 'outraging the modesty' of    a woman, and criminal conspiracy.  

Inspector Kumar said there are dozens of illegal short term contract marriages in the city, and that the Sudanese man they arrested had come to Hyderabad after a friend in Khartoum told him he had taken a ‘40 day wife’ during an earlier visit.

“If a Sudanese wants to have sex, he has to pay three times more [in Sudan] because there are far fewer girls there, or he takes a second wife. In India the girls are coming for a cheaper rate and they are beautiful. Even if they are only staying for a few days they are doing this kind of illegal marriages for sex,” he said.

He said the visitors want to marry because they believe prostitution is forbidden under Islam. Poor families agree to contract marriages because they have many daughters and cannot afford to pay for all their weddings.

Instead, they have a series of one-month contract ‘marriages’ to fund their own genuine wedding.

Shiraz Amina Khan of Hyderabad’s Women and Child Welfare Society, said there were up to 15 ‘contract marriages’ in the city every month and that the number is rising because.

“They come to Hyderabad because it has maximum downtrodden families. Thirty to forty per cent of families are going for the option of contract marriages to relieve their poverty. It has to be stopped,” she said.

Nausheen Tobassum, who is now living in a government home for girls said in an interview before she was placed in care, that she had filed a complaint to stop the same thing happening to other girls.

“I didn’t know what was happening and I agreed in ignorance. They forced me. They changed my date of birth certificate and made a fake one, where I was shown as 24 years old. They exploit girls and that’s why I went to police. I had to show courage to go to police against my parents. I don’t want to go back to my home, I am scared,” she said.

Re: India's 'one month wives' sex tourism for Muslims from Middle East and Africa

I think some one from India can reply to this. I have only seen these things in Indian movies.

Re: India's 'one month wives' sex tourism for Muslims from Middle East and Africa

There is a high chance this might happen in Pakistan when Arabs target poor families.

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Never heard of it, thanks.

Re: India's 'one month wives' sex tourism for Muslims from Middle East and Africa

I thought the "sale" of girls to rich middle easterners was common knowledge. Haven't heard of this specific one month marriage term.

Legalize prostitution. And these issues will go away.

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Utterly, disgusting.

I hope the authorities clamp down on this but more importantly provide support to the poor who are put in difficult situations. Not that I'm excusing the behaviour.

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I heard about similar cases of men from certain UAE countries visiting Marrakesh and going through with similar contracts.

Shocking this can happen in any country in this day and age however I guess for some it's a case of a) quick buck b) needs must.

Sad all the same.

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men all over the world will do anything and everything for sex. they will come up with religions and reasons to justify themselves. this has been the case all through out human history. the whole idea of a grl being a "minor" is very recent in human history. i'm sure its only since abt a 100 yrs ago that some cultures/countries see a 14 yr old grl being married as odd/illegal...now compare that to thousands of years of human thought/culture and it was completely normal for such things to happen. its unfortunate but true. and money has always been a strong persuasion for anything..especially for those who are in desperate need of it. all morals go down the gutter as long as there's enough green for it.

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this sort of stuff has been going on forever. in 1990 or 1991 there was a big furor over an air hostess rescuing a 10 or 11 yr old hyderabadi girl named ameena from flying out of the country with her new 60+ yr old saudi husband. it was said she was given in marriage by her parents because they were poor and he offered them some ridiculously small amount of money in exchange. indians don't really seem to value their girl children much.

I can't understand these people's logic. They think they are going to outwit or try to argue with God.

Yes, this happens with the Saudi royals. They marry a woman for one night and provide her more money than she would've ever seen in her life. A rose is a rose regardless of what you call it. Same with prostitution, regardless of how you disguise it with the performance of a temporary nikkah.

In this particular case, prostitution in India under the guise of marriage is cheaper than khartoum. Not enough women there for rampant prostitution and he is too cheap to marry a second wife for life. Disgusting and horrific.

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Happens in Iran daily in the open, perfectly normal under shia laws.

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^ didn't realize Arabs are Shia.

Re: India's 'one month wives' sex tourism for Muslims from Middle East and Africa

^can be Sunni too

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That was my point. Trying to deflect from focussing on one sect.

Re: India's 'one month wives' sex tourism for Muslims from Middle East and Africa

Not denying it, happens all over. Was trying to point out for those unaware and curious about this to look into Iran where it's considered normal.

Re: India's 'one month wives' sex tourism for Muslims from Middle East and Africa

Sorry. I misunderstood earlier.

Re: India's 'one month wives' sex tourism for Muslims from Middle East and Africa

it seems to be considered normal in more than just iran. if anything iran doesn't seem to exploit poor people from outside its boundaries, while the rich arab sheikhs are infamous for going "bride"-shopping. in fact they seem to prefer to import less-fortunate people to trap and abuse in more ways than just this one under the egregious "kafala" system that is their standard of normal.

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The unfortunate reality is compared to the US, The Pakistanis in the UK have no idea of the LAWS of ARab society and what the kafala system is to know that discrimination is written into Arab LAWS. THis isn't about perception this is their LAWS