Hi Everyone,
This is a little long, but believe me it is definately worth it!! Very
interesting points of view!
glad she got what she asked for (and more)!!!
This letter was written in response to an article:
Dear Editor:
I’m sorry but I would like to challenge some of your Indian male
readers. I am a White female who is engaged to a Indian male -
good-looking, educated and loving. I just don’t understand a lot of
Indian female’s attitudes about our relationship. My man decided he
wanted me because the pickings amongst Indian women were slim to
none. As he said they were either too fat, too loud, too mean, too
argumentative, too needy, too materialistic or carrying too much
excess baggage. Before I became engaged, whenever I went out I was
constantly approached by Indian men, willing to wine and dine me and
give me the world. If Indian women are so up in arms about us being
with their men, why don’t they look at themselves and make some
changes.
I am tired of the dirty looks I get and snide remarks when we’re out
in public. I would like to hear from some Indian men about why we
are so appealing and coveted by them. Bryant Gumbel just left his
wife of, 26 years for one of us. Charles Barkley, Scottie Pippen,
the model Tyson Beckford, Montell Williams, Quincy Jones, James Earl
Jones, Harry Belafonte, Sydney Poitier, Kofi Anan, Cuba Gooding Jr.,
Don Cornelius, Berry Gordy, Billy Blanks, Larry Fishburne, Wesley
Snipes…I could go on and on. But, right now, I’m a little angry
and that is why I wrote this so hurriedly. Don’t be mad with us
White women because so many of your men want us. Get your acts
together and learn from us and we may lead you to treat your men
better. If I’m wrong, Indian men, let me know.
A Disgusted White Girl, Somewhere in VA.
Response:
Dear Editor:
I would like to respond to the letter written by A Disgusted White
Girl. Let me start by saying that I am a 28-year old indian man. I
graduated from one of the most prestigious universities in Atlanta,
Georgia with a Bachelor of Arts Degree in Business Management. I
have a good job at a
major corporation and have recently purchased a house. So, I
consider myself to be among the ranks of successful Non-White men. I
will not use my precious time to slander white people. I just want
to set the record straight of why Indian men date white women.
Back in the day, one of the biggest reasons why Indian men dated
white women was because they were considered easy. The Indian girls
in my neighborhood were raised traditionally. They were very strict
about when they lost their virginity and who they lost it to.
Because of our impatience to wait, brothers would look for someone
who would give it up easy without too much hassle. So, they turned
to the white girls.
Nowadays, in my opinion, a lot of Indian males date white women
because they are docile and easy to control. A lot of Indian men,
because of insecurities, fears, and overall weaknesses, have become
intimidated by the strength of our Indian women. We are afraid that
our woman will be more successful than us, make more money than us,
drive nicer cars and own bigger houses. Because of this fear, many
Indian men look for a more docile woman. Someone we can control. I
have talked to numerous Indian men and they continuously comment on
how easy it is to control and walk over their white women.
I just want to set the record straight. I want A Disgusted White
Girl to know that not all successful Indian men date white women.
Non-Whites like Ahmad Rashad, Denzel Washington, Michael Jordan,
Morris Chestn! ut, Will Smith, Blair Underwood, Kenneth “Babyface”
Edmonds, Samuel L. Jackson, and Chris Rock all married strong
Non-White women. And, to flip the script, there are numerous white
men, in and out of the spot light, who openly or secretly desire
Non-White women over white women. Ted Danson, Robert DeNiro, and
David Bowie to name a few. I just don’t want a disgusted white girl
to be misinformed.
Stop thinking that because you are white that you are some type of
goddess. Remember, when Non-White Egyptian Queens like Hatsepshut
and Nitorcris were ruling Dynasties and armies of men in Egypt, you
were over in the caves of Europe eating raw meat and beating each
other over the head with clubs. Read your history! It was the
Non-White woman that taught you how to cook and season your food. It
was the Non-White woman that taught you how to raise your children.
It was Non-White women who were breastfeeding and raising your !
babies during slavery. It is the Non-White woman that had to endure
watching their fathers, husbands, and children beaten, killed, and
thrown in jail.
Indian women were born with two strikes against them: being
Non-White and being a woman. And, through all this, Still They Rise!
It is because of the Indian women’s strength, elegance, power, love
and beauty that I could never date anyone except my Indian Queen. It
is not just the outer beauty that captivates and draws me to them.
It is not the fact that they come in all shapes, sizes, colors and
shades that I love them. Their inner beauty is what I find most
appealing about Indian women. Their strong spirit, loving and
nurturing souls, their integrity, their ability to overcome great
obstacles, their willingness to stand for what they believe in, and
their determination to succeed and reach their highest potential
while enduring great pain and suffering is why I have fallen in love
with Indian women.
I honestly believe that your anger is geared more toward jealousy
and envy than snotty looks. If this were not so, then why do you
continuously go to tanning salons to darken your skin? If you are so
proud to be white, then why don’t you just be happy with your pale
skin? Why do you continue to inject your lips, hips, and breasts
with unnatural and dangerous substances so you can look fuller and
more voluptuous? I think that your anger is really a result of you
wanting to have what the Non-White woman has.
BOTTOM LINE: If I were looking for a docile woman, someone I can
walk over and control, I would give you a call. But, unfortunately,
I am looking for a Virtuous Woman. Someone that can be a good wife
and mother to my children. Someone who can be my best friend and
understands my struggles. I am looking for a soul mate and;
unfortunately, you do not and CANNOT fit the bill.
No offense taken, none given.
Signed,
Indian Royalty
