Indian women vs Pakistani women ?

redvelvet · May 11, 2009, 12:47am

The danger in making stereotypes is that it leaves no room for individuality and exceptions.

And as **Snazzy^^ **said, what religion are we referring to when speaking of **Indian **girls? I've seen Indian Muslim girls who MashaAllah are very decent. And I've seen Pakistan girls who are more liberal. I've even seen some very decent Caucasian (gori) girls.

Although our desi culture and religion emphasizes dressing modestly, I've learned that your clothes may or may not mean that you're "easy." For example, I've seen some Western girls (who tend to dress less conservatively than desi Muslim girls).....and they are fairly decent......not easy/trashy/slutty, etc. On the flip side......I have seen a few hijabi **girls (not all of them**) who are more flirtatious than their non-hijab wearing counterparts.

Does being friendly with a guy make a girl bad/shameful? No, it doesn't. It also depends on your** intentions. **For example if the teacher assigns a group project where a girl has to work with males in the group.....she needs to behave in a friendly/pleasant/cooperative/professional manner. A cold attitude will accomplish little and can be damaging. Similarly, one has to interact in a friendly/respectful manner when interacting with the opposite gender in the work place. There is a difference between being polite/friendly.........and being aggressively flirtatious.

Also, it doesn't make sense to say that a girl is "western" if she is friendly or talks to guys. I live in the west and I feel that my attitude/behavior is more conservative compared to some of the girls living in the most conservative cities of Pakistan. And I've seen that even in Pakistan...girls are friendly with guys.

When one is about to make a generalized comment....it's advisable (in my opinion) to use words such as "some" *or *"not all." For example, if somebody says that "Indian girls are so conceited,"...........the statement seems to imply that ALL *Indian girls are like that. And that's not true. Plus, such a statement can create arguments. So it's better to use words like *"some Indian girls" or "Not all Indian girls are like that" or "There are exceptions to the generalization". We can't account for the individual character of **every **single person that belongs to a particular group. To lump everyone under one big negative stereotype is hardly humble or fair.

hellraiser · May 11, 2009, 1:18am

coolmunda_2000

Idian girls/women getting married to/going out with Pakistani Men/boys. Is this some kind of a culture/tradition i am not aware of ?

So far in life i have seen soo many indian girls going out/getting married to Pakistani men. Why is that? Back in school days we had this girl, her Mom was an Indian & her dad Pakistani. Most of my friends (Pakistani one) Girlfriends/Wives are indian raher than Pakistanis.

And when i asked these poeple why you prefer Indian girls over Pakistani, they said because most Indian girls are easy to get along with, very down to earth compare to pakistanis who are always flying in the air and think of them as they are the best no matter what.

I want to add my own comment to this too but i won’t do it now, i want to hear your views first.

PS: I have not started this thread to anyone neither Indians nor Pakistanis, feel free to discuss & last but not least if you do not have anything good to say or if you are gona post in this thread to bash others then please don’t bother. As it will only reflect your own personality.

So Pakistanis girls do you agree with the fact that Indian girls are more less better than you?

I think you meant that many pakistani men you know are married to indian muslim girls?? Because i have never seen a pakistani who was married to or was in a serious relationship with a hindu girl. But i do know a few pakistanis who married indian muslim girls

Edited

However if a pakistani must go through the hassle of marrying a girl of a different nationality then go and marry a white girl. White girls are truly beautiful and are infact the most beautiful girls in the world. The skin colour does matter

Sara516 · May 11, 2009, 1:48am

Re: Indian women vs Pakistani women ?

oh God.

Sara516 · May 11, 2009, 1:51am

Re: Indian women vs Pakistani women ?

[mod]While difference of opinion is allowed, and we are free to talk about our experiences...making gross generalizations like calling an entire population "slutty" or "ugly" won't be tolerated. Watch your words. [/mod]

hitchki · May 11, 2009, 2:02am

Re: Indian women vs Pakistani women ?

basically. indians are about a size 8 and pakistanis are chubbier. id say 12.

so it's down to personal taste.

wondergurl · May 11, 2009, 2:07am

Re: Indian women vs Pakistani women ?

^ please edit! he/she is generalizing :halo:

Reha · May 11, 2009, 2:32am

I know several Pakistani men married to Hindu girls...

hellraiser...get your eyes checked...Allah Mian ki banai huwi cheez ki khubsoorti tum kya jano...lol

sumorani · May 11, 2009, 2:39am

obviously thats ur opinion but imo a brown colored girl has and always will be more attractive than a white or black girl. and i prove that on a daily basis to everyone that sees me!

sumorani · May 11, 2009, 2:40am

tsk tsk tsk.

Straight_up · May 11, 2009, 2:49am

Wow. Now this thread is getting real ugly. Whatever happened to the basic fact that human beings are created in different races and that each race is blessed with equal amount of beauty and piety. You people make me sick who think you're superior than certain races.

Sara516 · May 11, 2009, 2:57am

Re: Indian women vs Pakistani women ?

^ Yup.