Re: indecisivness
hahaaha the spit part makes me giggle!
Re: indecisivness
the tea problem - just get a good Thermos make tea for everyone in morning and put in it and tell them to take it as per their convenience. I don't think "asking ammi jee for tea" exercise should happen everyday. Do it for a couple of days if they don't take the tea tell your husband that the tea is getting wasted so you won't be making it anymore or if it doesn't then keep on making tea for everyone. It's just tea Nadz seriously if you are making for one making for two or three wouldn't harm you.
and please stop scrutinising your husband on every minute basis & give him a break ....stop thinking woh aisa hai to agay jaa kay aisa karey ga for a moment stop thinking how he would be with you in future. The guy is stuck b/w his mother and wife and he cannot keep both of u happy at once .