Is this a major problem is life? Lately I have noticed that I am actually unable to make decisions about anything. Be it minor little everyday things, or even longer term issues. I thought it may just be a confidence thing, being in a new environment and all. But it seems to be getting worse, to the point I sometimes won’t even say a single word incase it is the wrong thing to say or do, and then later regret it!
So, how to conquer this?
Re: Indecisiveness
Is this a major problem is life? Lately I have noticed that I am actually unable to make decisions about anything. Be it minor little everyday things, or even longer term issues. I thought it may just be a confidence thing, being in a new environment and all. But it seems to be getting worse, to the point I sometimes won't even say a single word incase it is the wrong thing to say or do, and then later regret it!
So, how to conquer this?
Your age, experience, and understanding of the issue influence on your decision making process.
You should speak out and express yourself. In my opinion, it will help you out regret thing.
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Oh i suffer from this disease :( Yes that's what i call it because it's really unhealthy and sucks big time. I hateeeeeeeeeee it!
Every two years or so i am faced with a situation where i have to pick one of the two best options available and i literally go in depression in stress because of it. It really gets horrible for me to the extent of sleepless nights and whatnot. So i really hate this about me and i hope i can overcome this somehow. Argh :(
I am gonna keep tabs on this thread and hopefuly can learn some tips to conquer it.
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So, how to conquer this?
You dont conquer it you fight it first.
If your indecisive just learn to take a chance now and then... you have to let yourself go and take a leap of faith sometimes and just go with instinct. Just remember to keep calm and say a prayer first. :@:
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inconsistency. everyone goes through this phase one or the other time in life, owing to different reasons. Sometimes its youth, or over excitement, or simply depression.
If you are a good learner, you always learn from what affects you negatively and try to correct yourself. And this is how you conquer, finally :)
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inconsistency. everyone goes through this phase one or the other time in life, owing to different reasons. Sometimes its youth, or over excitement, or simply depression.
If you are a good learner, you always learn from what affects you negatively and try to correct yourself. And this is how you conquer, finally :)
Yes, people do mistakes, it is good to learn a lesson and dont repeat again.
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It is really annoying, but yes I do think that often I just need to get on with it and take a chance. But it is easier said than done! The prayer does help :) How is it best to make yourself speak? I could happily not say anything and just listen for hours, which in some cases is not all that helpful. Somebody I was speaking to recently, mentioned that you have to make decisions for yourself, but I just can't seem to manage that.