^ thats what i was thinking.
We both work. So there is no issue of his or my money.. we both work jsut as hard.. and whatever we earn is OUR money
sure, he may not islamicly ask me to give what i earn to him or whatever.. but if we're both earning and trying to work together in achieving a goal, then whatever i earn is OUR money.. there isnt any other label
who warm up the dinner in your household ?
who warm up the dinner in your household ?
depends whose not looking after the bubz... and why does that matter?
Re: Income of Wife ... Authority of Husband ???
i guess Ghamdi was right, She is not required to work and expect this from husband and take only responsibility at home front. she goes out and build a career not as requirement but just cause the sake of her business and career move, then she should share all the responsibilties as a partner.
but socially whats wrong with sharing incomes if you have shared the whole lives ? however to order a wife to spend forcefully is wrong.
Dispute started when wife said "my money" husband said never said mine its "ours" like hubby's money is ours like that wifey's money is not hers its ours.
husband has no right on his wife's wealth without her consent from islamic point of view and i guess that had been established by assuming wife is taking care of home and earning by either being at home or giving due care of it.
all the laws whether heavenly or man made are made based on certain reason or assumptions.
if children are in day care and she is out as her husband is then whole equation has changed, i guess we need to look for a fatwa from a learned scholar , because both are out to looking for money/career etc, in this situation logically wealth can be shared as wife didn't do her part of job right based on traditional and islamic point of view.
furthermore it has more to do with understanding if wife wants to use certain piece of law/ethics code to hide something then there would be 100 other things/favours that her or any other husband is not required to do but doing.. if we keep on counting then gare kese chalegi.
relationships are more important (husband wife is unique of them all) than any other thing money is least of them provided other things between them are right (husband is not involved in haram activities).
here is another situation, if husband is stuck/or in desperate need wife got it plenty..then what.....still apna apna
Re: Income of Wife ... Authority of Husband ???
we do stuff without thinking about islam, and when needed islam we use this as defensive measure on need to have basis. if you go by Islam, she shouldnt be working but stay at home and take care of family , we all know its not possible for all of us though.
having wealth is different, if she inherited or given by parents that become different and she will have every right to use it where and how she prefers.
working together and sharing responsiblities is fine i guess.
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Re: Income of Wife ... Authority of Husband ???
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