Re: Inappropriate closeness with certain inlaws
Anyone who’s having sex in the prescense of guests is a weirdo. And I am not talking about that. But you’re assuming the world’s a rosy place and what is granted to us is being utilized. Well welcome to the real world, that’s not how it works. There are plenty of enough examples outside of one’s little bubble of how things DON’T work. You’re arguing that everyone’s doing it with their spouse like bunnies. Are you then denying that problems like the OP mentioned don’t occur at all? I am not saying that it is an epidemic but there are issues like that. There are issues of infidelity, of second or third marriages, of haram activities, and I am saying that’s DEFINITELY happening because one isn’t doing what is deemed by Allah halal. Just because you or I are sitting in the west with a limited number of desis around us, doesn’t mean that the rest of the world doesn’t exist. It does, and what is happening in the desi world, home world, the thoughts and view points is also prevalent and is also seeping into the western desi population.