Re: inappropriate behavior of spouse
Maybe my example wasn’t perfect so the meaning didn’t come out the way I intended. To me, watching/reading about porn/sex activities for pleasure is wrong, whether it is a woman who does it or a man. It’s okay to fantasize about your spouse but not okay to fantasize about the characters you see on tv. The more people get inspired by these things, the weirder the stunts they’d wanna try in the bedroom … even the ones forbidden by religion. And then when the wife refuses to group sex or partner swap, certain commentators on this forum would be quick to blame the wife for her lack of effort without knowing the full story. That was the only thing that I was objecting to… that just because one party is into porn, it doesn’t necessarily mean it is the other spouse at fault.
This is just my opinion. You don’t have to agree with me.