Re: In Pakistan is Stoning Seen as an Appropriate form of Punishment?
It is deliberately difficult as the point is not to go round trying to round up every single couple that may have had unlawful sex, rather** to stop it from being seen as ‘normal’ and acceptable by society..** it’s something that a lot of ppl don’t seem to want to believe tho..
Also, I forgot to add to my last post it’s not even recommended that u confess (it comes under not disclosing sins.. unless obviously they affect other people eg. u got someone pregnant or gave them an std.. these ‘personal’ sins are between u and Allah)..
I know ppl are not going to believe the bit about being told not to confess so here’s the info:
'Reported by many companions that Ma’iz went before Prophet Muhammad in the Mosque and said, “I have committed adultery, please purify me.” (In another report, Prophet Muhammad asked Ma’iz that the reports he heard about him are correct or not) prophet Muhammad turned his face away from him and said “Woe to you, go back and pray to Allah for forgiveness.” But the boy again came in front of prophet Muhammad and repeated his desire for purification. The act was repeated three times, until Abu Bakr, sitting close by, told the Ma’iz to leave, as the fourth repetition of the plea would get him stoned.
But the man persisted.Prophet Muhammad then turned to him and said “you might have kissed or caressed her or you might have looked at her with lust (and so assumed that you committed Zéna)”. Ma’iz replied in the negative. Allah’s Apostle said “did you lie in bed with her?” Ma’iz replied in the affirmative. He then asked, “did you have sexual intercourse?” Ma’iz replied in the affirmative. Then Prophet Muhammad got quite uncomfortable, and asked “Did your male organ disappear in the female part?” Ma’iz replied in the affirmative.
He then asked, once more, whether Ma’iz knew what Zéna means. Ma’iz replied “yes, I have committed the same act a husband commits with his wife.” Prophet Muhammad asked if he was married, and he replied “yes”.Prophet Muhammad asked if he took any wine, and Ma’iz again replied in the negative. Prophet Muhammad then sent for an inquiry from the neighbors of Ma’iz, whether or not Ma’iz suffered from insanity. The replies all came in the negative.
Prophet Muhammad then said, “had you kept it a secret, it would have been better for you.” Prophet Muhammad then ordered Ma’iz to be stoned to death. During the stoning, Ma’iz cried out, “O people, take me back to the Holy Prophet, the people of my clan deluded me.” When this was reported to Prophet Muhammad, he replied “Why did you not let him off, he might have repented, and Allah may have accepted it.”
Source: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Zina_%28Arabic%29
There’s also another hadith but I can only remember the vague details which outline a situation in which an unmarried man and woman appeared obviously dishevelled and prob having had intercourse but as there were no witnesses so they were immediately married to each other without being punished..
In a lot of cases in Pakistan and other Muslim societies young couples are punished for simply ‘running away’ or being caught together.. There is actually no shariah punishment for foreplay, kissing or anything short of full penetration with witnesses and/or confession..
So sad I was reading about some young girl who had been stoned for ‘seeing a boyfriend’ and during her autopsy it was revealed she was still a virgin.. I guess this is the other reason the requirements about the witnesses and confession are so strict 
'This is a common myth about Islamic criminal law. Rather, the four witness requirement applies only to the prescribed hadd punishment (which in the case of a married person could be death and for the non-married, 100 lashes). [Marghinani, Hidaya] This punishment is only applied in very rare cases, as is clear, and is meant to be a social deterrent, above all.’
Regarding rape, 4 witnesses are not required, DNA and medical tests can be used as evidence..
‘As the classical and contemporary jurists (such as Mufti Taqi Usmani) have made clear, a rapist can be convicted on lesser evidence (including scientific evidence, such as DNA tests and medical reports) for discretionary punishments. These discretionary punishments are left up to the legal system to determine.’
Source: http://qa.sunnipath.com/issue_view.asp?id=12121
'A woman who has been raped cannot be asked to produce witnesses; her claim shall be accepted unless there are tangible grounds to prove otherwise. To insist that she provide witnesses is akin to inflicting further pain on her.
If anyone refutes her claim of innocence, the onus is on him to provide evidence, and she may simply deny the claim by making a solemn oath, thus clearing herself in public. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said, “The onus to provide evidence falls on the one who makes a claim, and the one who denies (the same) can absolve himself or herself by making a solemn oath to the contrary.”’
Source: http://www.islamonline.net/servlet/Satellite?cid=1119503548970&pagename=IslamOnline-English-Ask_Scholar%2FFatwaE%2FFatwaE#ixzz1CwCs9tKz